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How is it going? Testing. Can you hear me? Can you see me? Oh goodness. Reed says yes. Mm. What am I drinking you may ask. Applesauce.

Hi everyone! It's working, I'm so happy! Mm. Okay. So, I have an agenda. This, by the way, is your Sexplanations video of the week. We have one that's all set and ready to go. It's one of the most beautiful things I've made. But before I posted it, I was like, "No! I'm gonna hold off. I'm gonna do a livestream this week. I can do it! I can do it, I know I can do it!"

That's the tape. We're cutting things. I'm going to post a schedule here. An agenda. Going on this box- oh, you can't see it there. This box? Yeah. There you go. Can you see it? Does it reverse the words or are you seeing it? Can you read it? Somebody tell me can you read it? I'm waiting. I'll wait.

"Hello from Montana."
"Hi from Jamaica."
Somebody tell me if you can see this. "Yes we can read it" awesome. Thank you, Erica. Mm. And all the yes's come up, that's funny.

Alright, so. Let me scoot over so you can see it and then figure out what's going on. Um.

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First we need to talk about finances. That's your finances. Then we need to talk about the tour route, perk updates, all these boxes around me. Uh, we're gonna make one box together so you can see what the process of constructing them is like and maybe it will incentivise you to want one. And then I'm gonna eat some eggs because I haven't had dinner yet. And, if we move some of these boxes-- I'm in, um. The hallway of my house, there is a bedroom here and a bedroom here and a hall this way, and I am taking up this-- I think it's called a vertex. Mmmm, slide all the things. See all the boxes. Wooowww. If we clear some of these boxes by designating them to people, then I will happily invite dogs to come through and cuddle with me and you can meet them. I got a new dog! Um, and then answer your questions. That's something I would love to do.

Uh, you're all doing comments really quickly. Uh, I don't have enough staff availability to have somebody monitor this for me. Moderate? Is that what it's called? So I'll just like, look over whenever possible. But, if you really wanna get my attention, uh, just wait until we do one of these answer questions and I'll be like, "Hey, let's answer some questions!" and we'll do that.

Mm. I'm so glad you're here. I have water. I have eggs to eat. I have Cheez-its, enough to share. I have this lovely feather thing I have going on here. Uh, what else. I have pickle chips. I'm surrounded by uh, some of my belongings that have yet to go into boxes so that we can construct them, and. I think we're ready, are we ready?

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This- the chat has stopped, so I don't know if things are still working but I think they are. Should I wear my sunglasses the whole time? This is the look of somebody who has been moving and packing up her house for weeks. And she's tired. I'm concerned that this isn't working anymore because the chat is dead. Did I kill it? "Hello," she types. I feel like we should have music. Well. We're just gonna sit here and wait and make sure that everything is okay and drink the applesauce.

And then, maybe I'll just, um... Oo, I know. So I'm borrowing a person's computer, the editor's computer, to be able to do this livestream because for some reason on my computer, which is a Samsung Chromebook, which I love in order to type and research because the, um, edge of it is really round and smooth and I have tiny little hands so when I type, um, on a Mac or a Dell, the edge goes into my wrist like this and it's really painful. So on my Chromebook, here I'll show you. This is not an advertisement. It's really not an advertisement, because, this thing-- don't look at my emails-- mm smooth. So nice. So, I will look on here because I bet I can see the stream how it's happening for all of you since the chat is still not working. It looks like it's active but nobody's talking? Or the talking is not coming up. That's okay.

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Hah! Let's see. The chatting is happening here, but not there. What a conundrum. Why are these never simple for me? Ah, I will try anyway. Oh my goodness. Mmkay. So, I will just proceed and occassionally if I am looking down it is because I am reading comments from here. Um. Can you... okay. They can read it. Good they already. Alright, alright, alright. Mm.

Finances. First order of business. I spend a lot of time living on the internet and so I am aware that pretty frequently, amazing people with amazing causes ask for money for those causes. And, as a person who loves philanthropy and wants to give money to things that are important, I am like, wow I wonder what this is like for other people who don't have as many financial resources as I do when they, like, really want to help or they really want a perk or they really want to participate in a project for raising money but they also need to pay bills and rent. So.

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Tonight there will be talk of money and projects to fund and I want to start the whole conversation by saying that you taking care of yourself financially is the most important thing that I am asking of you tonight. I need you to take care of you. If you have surplus money, then please take care of others. But yeah, that's how I'm at with it right now. Uh, I look at people who hoard money, what I would call millionaires, billionaires, and I think, yeah, it makes me want to turn Patreon off in a way. Even though I love the energy of crowdfunding and everyone coming together as a community, I don't think anyone should have to round up a few dollars to have sex education. I would like to see the people who have the millions of dollars, even the hundreds of thousands of dollars, to the billions of dollars, like, don't even get me started there. But that those people, it would be really great if they just funded entire projects.

I don't know. Not all the thoughts are fleshed out about it. But I will say that if you want to explore this more, there is a really helpful YouTube channel called the Financial Diet, and there are all sorts of movies and documentaries, ways um, to just learn more about how to balance taking care of yourself and taking care of others. My, kind of, practice, is to split my income into thirds. Um. A- a third that I would save, I think this is how I do it, a third I would save, a third I would spend, so like, bills, food, and then a third I give away. Uh.

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It just helps me be a saner person and not get so wrapped up in hoarding money! Uh, to each their own though. Okay. Checking the screen here. This one looks like it stopped too though, hahaha. None of the computers can handle you. Mm let's see what happens if I type hi. Nothing. Well. I'm gonna refresh. I care so much about you, is what I'm trying to say! Okay, see it's working again. I think.

Alright, so, that I think takes care of finances. Essentially, it is giving you permission to not spend any money and, like, take care of yourself, and know that there are other ways to support and be a part of the community, including sharing this with people who have lots of money! Like, "hey, really wealthy uncle, this is what I would like for Christmas" or, you know, give your Dominatrix something. Kay, so here we go. Check, did it.

Next item, although these are not in order, is the tour route! *sigh* Um, thoughts, come together. Essentially, I want to explain to you that the tour isn't going to be different than "the tour".

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I'm not intending on doing stop, show, stop, show, stop, show every single day. I'm trying to let the RV do the work. So we're gonna go to a place and just be there for a week and hang around, answer questions, and let the community kind of, gossip about us and figure out where they are in terms of their sexual health and be there to answer questions, but not do shows so much. I am working on doing a show at a Catholic university in, Catholic college, I think, on the way down, but. Just to be very clear and honest with you, it is much less of Sexplanations the road tour and much more mobile Sexplanations, like Sexplanations is going on the road. So we'll be doing videos while we go. And we will be going to a lot of places. And just, exposing them to the RV. That sounds exhibitionist. If people have problems with it, we will respect them and move ourselves to a different location.

Okay, so, here's the route. My thinking is Missoula, where I'm moving from, to Helena, possibly do a talk there at the Catholic college, go to Butte, Montana, visit my former foster son. Stay in Wise River, Montana, for a day or two, and then we're gonna shoot down through Idaho, go to a bunch of places in there, and we're trying to be in these places longer than before. So, sometimes when we would go to a place, we were there for an hour and a half.

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We'd get in, I would do a talk, and we'd leave. And this time, I would like to, really, let things percolate. So, that's Idaho, and then we would go, um, to Utah, spend some time in Zion exploring, and then go over to Vegas, do some work there. I would like to go back to Pahrumph, to see the brothel again and kind of check in, see how things are going, maybe do a follow up video. Um. And then, we'll go, this is a plan, loose plan, Death Valley, maybe Reno, then Bay Area, so Davis, San Francisco, Sunny Vale. Do some videos there. Go down the coast. Because I love the warmth and water! Unless you recommend something else. I know there is a request to go to Fresno. So, it's in my mind but it's out of the way, and then we would go to San Diego and eventually cross into Baja California, which is part of Mexico, and I will try to live there for two years!

But, um. It's a loose, um, order of operations. I have my 20th high school reunion in Hudson, Ohio next June. So I'll be back to the United States for that in Ohio. Um, but other than that, this is what we're doing. Okay, did we get that? I am going to look at the computer now. I don't know if it is updated at all. 

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This one has started again. There's definitely a lag, but that's fine. So, now is a time to ask questions so that we can catch up on things. Cuz, I don't wanna just talk to myself. I wanna engage with you. Alright. People are saying hi. "Are you coming to New Mexico?" Not that I know of. I already did New Mexico. As for as Indiana, I will definitely be trying to do that. Indianapolis in particular is where I'd like to go, and, what is it called, where the Kinsey Institute is, there. But it's on my list, I just don't want to do it when the weather is unpleasant, which would be now. So, in the future, maybe next summer, maybe the summer after that.

Oh my goodness something just happened that's really cool! Did you all see that? So, I guess the editor set this up to be a superchat, so people can donate tips, like, they can tip me in the moment, this is incredible. So you know, your money is going to be going to getting me around to all these places. It's very expensive. Um. Tanks of gas are hundred something dollars. It's like 9- we get 9 miles to the gallon. I think I miswrote that in a Tweet. But 9 miles to the gallon. And I felt really bad about this until I was talking to two people who you may know from the internet who are very well-known for their environmental conscientiousness. And they kind of gave me permission to let myself off the hook because while I am using a lot of gas, I am only heating my water when I need my water. I'm not heating my entire house. I'm not taking long showers. I'm not taking up a huge, you know, footprint of land or anything like that.

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I dunno. It felt kind of nice. Okay. Uhhhh. I'm drinking applesauce. These are- this computer was ahead of this one and now I can't- neither of them are moving. Alright, well, I don't see questions from you. Oo! I see one. "What are some good penis penile exercises that one can do to gain mass?" Oh gosh, there's a whole video on that, I think. I mean, there is jelqing but I don't necessarily put all of my support into it because I am concerned that people will cause Peyronie's. Which is where there's a scar tissue build-up in the tissue. Alright. Let's see if we can get this to give me more questions. I am going to take this off and put on here perk updates.

Alright. See. I'm glad that I make, haha, edited videos cuz this is so hard. Every time I refresh this to get the chat to start again, and. Oo. I see. Okay.

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I saw the message about top chat versus live chat. I put it on live chat. Okay. But I think that because I refreshed it, it starts over and goes through all of them and it is slowly working up. So, my apologies if you are all asking me questions right here and it seems like I am ignoring you. I am not trying to. I really, really, really, really like you and I really want to answer your questions. "Dr. Doe can you please do a video on sexual reassignment surgery" I have. "and sex after transition?" I have done a video on trans sex.

"How do you not gag on a penis?" Um. I have a video on that too. There's two blue- blue jobs- two blow job episodes that talk about gagging. Um.

"How do I become a sexcologist?" There's a video on that! So fast, these things are going to fast. Um. I did go to Pennsylvania and I went to Northern Idaho. Tulsa, Oklahoma. Let's talk about Oklahoma. So, I did the first tour and in preparing for that, I was also looking for places that I want to move. And I was really attracted to the south because there's a lot going on there. The climate is lovely, I love dahlias, which are a type of flower, and I don't like digging them up every year to replant there, to save them, so I wanted a place where I could just leave the dahlias in the ground and they would just bloom every year. And I wanted a liberal community in a conservative state, and I have been maybe misunderstood on why so I will just tell you why.

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That is because I want to feel safe around my neighbors and I want to help and understand, have dialogues with communities who don't necessarily share the same values. So, that's my intention there. And when I was looking for places, cuz you can do all sorts of searches, um, based on politics, Oklahoma came up as the only state that has no blue. Anyway, so I got the message from that that maybe the RV was not safe driving through there. And I realize that being conservative or voting red- Republican, any of, right, all of those things are not sononymous with being unsafe, but there is a corrolation between people who have those values and a preference for abstinence, so. That's why. Um. Okay.

Do I know Katie Morthon? I think the person is asking Katie Morton, yes I do. She is even more lovely in person, is that possible?

Can I do a video on swings? I mean I did a sex swing video but, yes I should do a video on swinging. Ah!

Do I want to move to the Knoxville area? I sure do. I've been looking for a building in Knoxville to buy so that I can turn it into a school. And the building in particular that I really like is huge with a really, really, really big yard, so I imagine that I would, kind of, move in, get settled, create some dormitories, and have a farmer's market every weekend and maybe there's a kombucha-- what is it, a brewery?

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Do you call it a kombucha brewery? I don't even drink kombucha but somebody wanted to have a kombucha place there. There's like a cafe and all this stuff that we build in and then there's this school with classrooms and um... maybe a secret dungeon underground. I love Tennessee! That's where I want to end up. Um. Okay.

"I'd love for you to do an episode on where porn meets reality." Complicated.

Okay. I think I'm going through Utah, aren't I? Yes, I am going through Utah. Goodness gracious so much is going on here. This is why I don't do these I can't handle them. *claps* Can somebody type the word safety pin so that I know where the live chat is with what I'm actually seeing?

This is how much of a lag there is. "Can you do a video on religious sex?" Uh, I'm doing, I did a podcast-- This is cool! When you pay money I can see you!

I did an interview with my cousin about waiting until marriage, which was awesome, and, um, the podcast, by the way, is going to restart tomorrow. Ahaha! So exciting. Thanks for the tip, Daniel! Um, we have recorded so many episodes of the podcast, it's become a really fun thing cuz there are a lot of new interviews that I wanted you people to hear before we leave, um. So.

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There are so many, so many, and I think you're really gonna love it. Oh there I see safety pin! That only took five minutes. Alright. Thank you. If you wanna catch my eye, you can apparently leave a tip and it will send this bright green thing on my screen and I will see it, so that's fun. Aw look at all you putting safety pin! You know why that came into my mind? Look at this. *Shows giant safety pin*

And there's one in a box already, already packed. These are some of my most precious home decor items because I want people to feel safe. And now that I'm moving into an RV, every bit of weight counts. So this hefty guy is going to go into a box, and if you would like it, I have a system for maybe how you can choose which box. Okay.

So, I have answered some questions. Again, if you go *pew* and do a tip. I think, one of- one of the tips was a dollar 99 and it came up, so any amount will get my attention. But for right now I'm going to keep going through these things. Okay? Oh my gosh, there's like a thousand of you writing safety pin! No there aren't a thousand. There's 6 hundred and 69 people watching right now. So fun! Okay, so. Oh wait. I did- oh, I did this. But we'll do another one. Perk updates I haven't done.

So here are the updates. People are going to be getting perks as I go on this route, I'm gonna keep trying to fulfill them. We have a ton of new merch coming out that's all based on the design of the RV wrap.

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So, tote bags. I think we're doing sweat shirts, I think there's press on decals so that you can do them on your own things. Posters, pins, all sorts of goodies coming. And so if you are on Patreon.com/Sexplanations... Oh my gosh, so many things are happening.

Kevin says, "Is the crack around the poop chute normal?" Most people change the- I don't know. Okay, I got distracted by a really big orange question. Okay, if- thank you for your donation. If- If you are a Patreon - Patreon.com/Sexplanations at the let's get physical level, which means that you get a package every so often, these are not necessarily for you, unless nobody buys them. They are for people who go to Patreon.com/Sexedroadtour, and they sign up specifically for one of these, but don't worry, you're going to get something cool. All those merch items that I listed? I'm going to put them in boxes for you and I'm going to send them to you. Because a lot of these things you may have seen already and... um... and I want to raise money for the tour right now. So, I've talked to you about that on Patreon and tried to get your permission there and people were really supportive there. I saw green once.

"How to approach the topic of sex in religious environments." Oh yeah. We already did that. Uh, there are lots of podcasts and they're going to continue to come out. And I want to do an episode on waiting until marriage but I would also recommend watching, um, Ten Minute Bible Hour and asking Matt, who is the host of that, to do content related to sexuality. But I too will join in on that.

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Oh my gosh, look at all of you tipping me! You're so sweet. Mm! It just, okay. That makes me want to eat an egg. So, hahaha, you- you should see the set up I have here. Alright. Is that a perk update? I don't know if that's enough. I know that some of you are missing tattoos. I know that some of you are missing videos, calls... The tote bags are very slow to make because we just got permission from the RV graphic designer to use the design on the tote bags and I really want you to have that tote bag. There was a design going around for a while that was of a SCUBA diver. That is no more. So. Well, it is a thing, maybe it will revive again, but I wanted to do an RV wrap one because I think it's so damn pretty.

This- oo, there it goes, this is slowed. Wait. "Hello Lindsey, love you and your channel. Would it be possible for you to talk about or do a video on delayed ejaculation?" Didn't I do that? Haha. I can't remember anymore. I think I did. I think I did a hundred reasons to delay ejaculation. If you're seeing these questions, by the way, and you know the answers, please help me answer them. Cuz a lot of you are really familiar with my content. Some of you are more familiar with my content. Um.

This one says look up in Superchat please. I. I don't. How do I look up in Superchats?

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Look up? Like, look up here? I like you guys a lot. Can I just give you compliments and let you know that I am trying really hard to figure out this system and I, uh, fail sometimes? Ah. You- you're all so amazing. You did a room for me? Thank you. Mm, okay. Ready? Mm. She eats the egg. Okay. Let's do this thing. Right now, you, the computer, are on top of a box, which is on top of the biggest dildo I own, which is right in front of me. So I'm gonna slide you forward. Oh. Move this cord. Mm. So you can see my tower a little more. And I'm gonna write some numbers on here and then I'm gonna check in on Patreon. Mm. How are we gonna do this. I'm gonna check on Patreon first. Maybe all the packages are gone. That's possible. You're not supposed to eat with your mouth full but here, no shame. Be like this open marker. Egg. Egg mouth. Log in. Email. Road tour.

Okay. If you wanna buy a box.

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You can go to Patreon.com/-- keep getting distracted. Patreon.com/sexedroadtour and then there's the usual list of perks, and towards the bottom, for 200 dollars, there is a perk for a box. I'll send you a box. And I'll send it to you right away because they're in my hallway. They're all packaged and ready to go and I want them out because I'm leaving on November 1st. My house is mostly empty. I'm moving. For the first time in 20 years I'm moving and I can't wait.

Okay so let's see how many are left and how many we can sell. 38 left. That's a good thing. Alright so I'm gonna write some- some things on here. Um. How do we wanna do this? I think what I wanna do... Hm.. Is there a way to see when people tip because some tips are coming up but others aren't and so there's a bar at the top of potential tips but I can't see all of them and I'm wondering if we wanna put some of these boxes available to buy as a pop-up. Nope, we don't. No, we don't. Too complicated for Lindsey. Too much going on right now.

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Have I considered Utah as a home? Yes, I have. So, if you want a box, go to Patreon.com/sexedroadtour to buy a box. My goal is to sell all of them tonight before I get tired. I'm gonna try. I realize that there is a lot going on here. This, this is my goal for the live stream. Have a Cheez-it. Mystery boxes. Now you know. Let's make one. That seems like a good idea. Can I get a recheck on timing of the chat? Can somebody type Cheez-it?

I would like to do an episode on autism and sexuality. "Pretty please elaborate on mr"... No, I will not let you go too fast that I can't read you. "On mrkh. I want to feel normal and I'm really sorry but I can't buy a box." Okay. I hear you and I will try.

"What is in the box potentially?" I'm gonna show you because we're gonna make one together. So here's what I do. First, I take some tissue paper that I got from the Dollar Tree because I wanna fancy it up a bit. You know, you're spending money here and you're getting my belongings. So I don't want to just sh- my shit in a box. I want you to feel like I love these things dearly and I want you to love them dearly.

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So, I put the tissue paper in a box. These are boxes that I got from the Good Food Store which is a food store in Missoula. It's one of the things that I miss the most about Missoula because there are certain foods that I couldn't get anymore on my travels. Okay, so I put these. I'm gonna put two on this one because I really want to, uh, be thorough. Alright, so then, behind the screen here is a pile of other things that I have found that haven't already gone into boxes. So a lot of my personal things have already gone into boxes but not all of them because I have a shit-ton of stuff related to sexuality. So maybe we'll- we'll build like, 3 of these boxes together and you can kind of get an idea of what goes into them. I wish the chat was matched better so you can tell me whether or not you are excited about what I'm choosing and be like, "No Lindsey do that instead!" Whatever. We'll just do it together. Way over time. Mm okay.

So. First item. Part of me wants to light his penis on fire just for entertainment at this very moment to be captured forever. But I'm not going to. This is gonna go to someone. I really like it. Alright. This was given to me as a gift. There is a second one that is blue with breasts. I really, really like them.

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But, because I am going to be living in a small little box and not collect things for a long time. And I can't bring myself to light this thing on fire. I want it to go to a good home where someone else can appreciate it and either not light it on fire or have a really cool party based on the wick right here, there's wick right here and there's wick right here. So entertained. It even has like a tiny, tiny little scrotum. It's very small. Can you see? No. Not really. This is a very slender person. okay slender person. I picked this special box for you. You're gonna go in at a diagonal. I don't want you to break.

I still haven't seen the word Cheez-its yet. And somebody asked if I'm drunk and I am not drunk. I am mostly a non-drinker. Uh. Okay. Oo Abby just bought a box. Oo thank you Abby! I wish I could see the chat in real time. It's only a sad thing to me.

Alright what else should we put in the box. Mm I have something. Cheez-its. This was a Halloween costume that I got. I thought that it was the most clever thing there ever was ever. But it did say ages 2 and up so I changed it to ages 28 and up. I'm 37 that seems reasonable. Isn't it awesome? It's so awesome oh my gosh I love it!

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But I don't wear it. Cuz everywhere I have spend Halloween in the past 20 years is really cold. So, into the box. This cute, matching beret. This will serve as good padding for the candle penis. Oo candle penis. There you go, now you can see it, another layer. We need to put some more things in there. Ope, I found some. How about a postcard from- nope not those postcards. Those have addresses on it. I'll find more, don't worry. Stock room postcard. Into the box. Vaginal renewal program brochure. I think I have a whole box of brochures. This one. We've got genital warts! If you are a man birth control. Which is super gender weird given these days. It's from 1996 but reviewed in 2009. We have made a lot of changes in language these days. So it's like a historical brochure. Sexual health from my local clinic. Condoms Talking with your Partners. Let's put those in the box. Into the box!

What else do we have. Oo! It's a brochure from the Phallological Museum! I did an episode on this! It's a really great museum. Let's look at the brochure. Ooooo! Aaaaahhhh!

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Into the box. Here's something cool. This is a demo of an IUD or intrauterine device. So you can see here the little part that goes in with the copper coils. Okay and then the string comes down through this tube. This is going to push up through the tube. These- the top of the T is going to come down like this like "I am an IUD and as I come out the top my little arms are going to come like this so I get really tight and small while going up," or at least this is how I think it works, "It goes up into the cervical os into the uterus and then I open up and fill the space of the uterus." And then this tube and the- the part that pushes it in comes out. This is for demo use only. Don't put this in somebody's body. I'm gonna put it in the box. Not so mystery mystery box. Oo in the box!

Okay, next. What other cool things do we have? We have a brochure, pamphlet, sheet? Paper. 10 Things Men can do to Prevent Gender Violence. Cool. Let's fold it up. Oo, it's Spanish on the backside. I need to learn Spanish. I don't know. Going to live in Mexico. Get on that, Doe.

What else do we have? Oh. We have a vibrator. This doesn't have a charger so this isnt gonna go in yet. Let's try some other things. Sexplanations stickers! In the box.

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Oh. This is pretty. I made this. There was a craft night at the university where I used to teach and you could take these magazine clippings or anything and then you stuck them onto the back of one of these glass beads and then put a clasp to make it into a pendant. And this is the image that I chose. Mm. Boobs. Into the box.

This person is a lucky person. These are very cute things. I think they're cute. Oo. I have this brochure on lube. Let's add that too. This is a thick one too. So exciting. Okay. How about this cute picture. This is back in the days of disposable cameras and this is me on my first day of school, I think. No, I look too relaxed for that. On one of my first times at school for my doctoral program. This is the school the inside of the school. Which no longer exists. Ah, historic. She's such a babe. Like a little baby.

Okay. Oop, found another thing. I have a whole bunch of these. These are little containers used for people to keep their medications on a key ring so that they have them on hand whenever they need them. I had a friend order me a bunch so that they could turn into capsules for lubricant. So if you have a Vesper, the type of vibrating necklace or any type of vibrating necklace or equipment or what- what? Even if you don't have a vibrator but you want a cool bling with your favorite kind of lube, get one of these, wash it out really well. Yep. Doesn't smell. Put your lube in there. Tada! Into the box!

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More stuff, more stuff, let's do more stuff. Let's save this for another one. Let's save this one for another one. What else should I put in here? A sex toy would be very cool. If I have any others behind me. Do you fit? You do not fit. Do you fit? You fit. Look at this. I got this little vibrator at a conference and it has significance because at that conference, I was so- I was so... I'm just now seeing Cheez-its. Well, whatever. 20 minutes lag isn't bad. I got this at a conference. A sexuality conference. Which if you've never been before and you experience sexual arousal or attraction it's really hard, like, yeah that- pun intended. You get really horny. And so they gave these out to us and I was talking to a colleague and I was like "I'm so. I just want to have sex!" and I was directing that at him like, "Hey let's go get this out of our- my system- our systems," and he was busy doing things with the conference, like he had to work, so to just keep me riled up, we were given these as part of our goody bags at the conference and he would like stick this on me every now and then. Over my clothes. But, it's like kind of a sweet memory. In the box!

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Alright. I wish I could see what you're saying real time. Makes me so sad. Mm. I'm just taking a break for you to catch up for 20 minutes. Just kidding. Mm! This needs to go in the box. This is a letter that I wrote and photocopied so that each box has an idea of what they might be finding in the box. And it also says that if you get one of these boxes, you can contact me and I will tell you the significance of the contents. Because the thought of going through and telling people and writing, like, "Oh this meant this to me and I got this here," and all that stuff was overwhelming. So instead I was just like, hey reach out to me and send me a picture of the thing and I'll tell you the stuff. Goes in the box. Okay. Box. Anything else in this one box. Hm?

I think I have one more really cool thing. Let's do this. This is a little booklet from- it says Let's do it Again. Illustrated by life. I don't know what that means. Price 5 Voleer. I don't know what that's from and I look to the chat as if you could tell me.

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"Switch the mode between live and top to update." I don't know how to switch it anymore is the problem. Yeah. Mm. Let's see if we do pop-out chat? Top chat. Then it let's me switch it. Now I see boob pendant. We're working. If you wanna buy a box. Go to patreon.com/sexedroadtour. Alright. Hmm hmm hmm. Hmm hmm hmm hmm hmm hmm hmm hmm.

I know. I'm waiting to not have food in my mouth to talk but I want to eat these so badly. Okay. Here we go. Back to this brochure. If you know what 5 Voleer means, please tell me. "Privately printed for adults by All Sport Fornications Press." I know that this thing has value but I don't know what it is, and right now it's not valuable to me because it's more stuff.

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So, it's going to go in this box. It's probably the last special item. And I'll share a little bit of it with you before it becomes that person's. And then maybe they'll make a YouTube video where they share the whole thing and they're like, the Sexplanations Booklet. "It is terribly hid," explained Caroline as she entered her luxurious apartment. She laid her parasol over a chair, pulled out the gold hat pin which adjusted to her pretty blond hair a splendid hat." Still have Cheez-its in my mouth. "Wise of brim and ornamented with white and black feathers of great value. She tinkled the bell on the table and in a moment appeared a dainty Spanish maid with one of those bewitching faces which seems always saying please eat me?" Whose face? Okay. Let's practice faces. Here. Is that- this is my please it eat me face. Okay. Alright.

"Did you call, Madame?" she inquired as she entered.
"Yes, Rose. Come and undress me." So saying, Caroline turned her back and the maid loosened up her dress of beautiful China silk fitting perfectly her svelte body and revealing all her graceful curves.
"It seems that you are perspiring, Madame."
"Why of course. It is awfully warm out in the streets. Bring me a fan." Rose brought the fan to Caroline who already had unfastened her corset, dropped her chemise, adn stood in front of the mirror completely naked. Smilingly, she contemplated her figure for a moment at it was reflected in the mirror-
Mm. Spelling is off.

"and after covering her body with a clean dry chemise." ka-meez? I'm French? Okay.

"Which Rose handed her, she lay down." Down. Dwon. "on the sofa, fanning herself and asked, did anyone call while I was out?"

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[Reading, continued]: "- herself and asked, 'Did anyone call while I was out?'
'No, Madam. Only the postman who left some letters and postcards. They're there on the dresssing table.'"
[Lindsey, as self]: I wan-, are they gonna have sex? I think so. I'm gonna go with yes? Because the next page-, can I show this? Sure! This is educational, this isn't porn. They're-, yep. They're having sex. There's a chain of naked people having sex, photograph. So basically, I am sending someone porn, which means please - please, please, please - only buy these things if you are over 18, because I don't know what is in which boxes. And there are videos of erotica in some of them.

18 and older, 18 and older, 18 and older, Patreon.com/sexedroadtour, 18 and older.

[reading]: "'T-o-m-m-o-r-r-o-w I shall send you a box of another and an excellent sort,' and Mr.Solomon(?~57:21) descended to the stairs spitting repeatedly. On his way h-o-e-m, Mr.Ball[mute] entered a chemist store, and addressing the owner, a friend of his, said, 'Look here, Mr.Pimp, you are an expert in perfumes. Please tell me what manner of soap is this with which I have washed myself, and which has left peculiar smell in my mouth.' Mr.Pimp approached his friend-, approached his nose to his friend's mouth and retired quickly saying, 'Why, that's milk."

[as self]: I don't- psh. There's some excitement going on here.

[reading]: "Eight times he had been compelled to serve-

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[Reading, continued]: -Caroline in addition to the first and his bout with the maid. Now the reader can guess the great amount of soap material [high pitch] which was churned into a lather in that house. The end.
[laughter] What? Oohh. Yeah, this is from a long, long time ago. Nineteen-...eighteen something, early nineteen-somethings. Okay.

Oookay, here we go. Put it in the box. [sing-song] Put it in the box. Make sure it's padded so that the penis doesn't break off? Anything else we can add for padding? I think this tissue paper will be good. [Vocalizing] Oh! Pendant fell out. I wanna pad it more. Oo! You know what? Yeah, okay. I think-, not that. Okay. Add more just in case, because I don't want penisman to get hurt, you know? Or penislady? What can I put in there that's soft and squishy. Dildos. I'm glad we're all hanging out, you're just gonna watch me eat.

Oo! Somebody did something. Tony and Sarah saying "Hey! We see that Swensons(?~59:50) glass. Way to represent, love what you do, keep up the amazing work."

Most excited about on the 2020 tour -

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Swimming with the whale sharks.

All right. I'm concerned about this guy. I need-, all that padding that I used for the episode on building your own sextoy - I need some of that padding so I can stick it in there.

How do we do this, people. Give me a moment. [Exits frame (1:00:48); returns (1:01:090)] I'm wearing snowpants, by the way, because it's Montana and it's cold.

Envelope. Dog footprint. Padded. Go in. Protect the candle. Ta-daah, lockdown. Tape. I really wish I could see what you are all saying.

Yes, Perry, who asked if you should keep posting the link - please, do. That would be wonderful. And in a moment here, I will check and I will see how many boxes we have left to sell. So that maybe some point I go to bed. So here's what I do next: I put the tape -

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I put the tape on the edge of the box lid like this - [high vocalization] woo! And then, I cut the tape. And then I put the two sides together so that they make a nice seam, and push in the sides so that they're really snug-, oo, yeah! Playing with packages! And then, to be extra safe, which I wouldn't always do, but I really like what're-, what I put into these boxes. I'm gonna put one across the top like this. Then, I have-, [high vocal] woo! See, we're making more boxes which means we have more, even more to give away.

I have a whole bag of stickers. These stickers accidentally went on a rafting-, aww, somebody donated 45, and I didn't see it. I see you now, I appreciate you, Jared. I'm gonna-, okay, oh! Anyway, I'll finish this and then I'll go and look at all the superchatty people. So. These stickers went on a roadtrip.

[Reads Chat]: "Dr. Doe, we need to strengthen your livechat game, we will continue to superchat until you recognize, any reserve-green items you can put in a box?" "Reserve-green," like WRA? Tesla? Question mark?

Um, they went on a rafting trip with me and got slightly wet, so they're not great to, like, just-have stickers? But they make great covers for these barcodes that we can recycle boxes, even though some of you might get your package in a different box, -

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- because when I went to the post office the last time, they told me that it's much, much cheaper to put anything that's over 2.5 pounds and going east of South Dakota into flat-rate boxes, and these are heavier. So, that's the thing, here we go. Put you up there.

You want to improve my game, so let's do this. I'm gonna eat Cheez-Its in the meantime. I love them, they're so yummy. Go to top chat? Tesla, can you tell me how to get to all the people who did the-

[Reading]: "Jose Lopez. Do rim jobs feel good? Is it true th-,"

I'm distracted. I'm gonna answer some questions.

[Reading]: "Do rim jobs feel good."

I would say so, for some people.

[Reading]: "Is it true that women, hundreds of years ago utilized face-sitting as a form of punishment?"

I don't know, but I don't see why not. I'm moving to Mexico. Okay, I don't know how to find the things. If you can tell me though?



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The boxes are for people who donate $200 to the sex ed road tour. You don't have to do it over a long period of time, you can just do a one-time pledge and then turn it off. Two-hundred dollars. You get a mystery box with some of my stuff that's sexuality-based. [high pitch] Yaaay! I'll build another one for you here in a bit. We have 37 boxes left, and we just built another one.

Okay. There are a couple of things that I need from you: one, can somebody write, what a good word... applesauce, so that I know how much of a lag there is? Two-hundred per box, you're not just buying my stuff for $200, although some of it is worth that much. You are supporting the road tour, essentially paying for a tank of gas and shipping, and then I'm just giving you my stuff to say "thank you." Here, I will show you:

Boxes (x8). Whoa, look at all those boxes, and then they go over there, too. Lots of boxes. There is a box that this computer is resting on, and another box that that computer is resting on. Which is the most gi-naan-tic, gigantic guy. I'm working on an episode about this guy. Until then, you stay there and function as a podium. Good job.

All right, team.


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Can we sell these boxes? I would like to get them out of here. If you don't think they're gonna sell for $200 apiece, or you're not going to buy them, that's okay to say, too, and as a team, we can come up with other options for them. There's "applesauce." So much later.

Thank you to the five-hundred and eight of you who are watching! I really appreciate it. I'm just watching hundreds of "applesauces" on the screen.

Lost fifi 9. I know it's 3am there and you're trying to message me as a professional but can't get a hold of me. I am watching your comments right now, and it'll be ten minutes later th-, from the time you post it to the time I see it. But. That's okay.

You would think that there would be a way for me to just search, I just haven't figured it out yet. I'm a babe in the land of livestreaming.

Do I have a sister, yes, I think she's ten. Hey, from Towonto-, Toronto. Phantom bubbler went twice in. But got buried, I see you now, Emma Miller- [high vocalizing] ah, ne! Things are going very fast. Do I have a private practice, [high pitch] not anymooore.

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[Reading]: "Superchat post will expire, best to keep on live and slow it down, hold alt-option on your keyboard to pause the chat feed and hover over messages. You need a trusted moderator."

You can ask me how old I am, I'm thirty-seven.

Okay, so, - I have it on "live app" and, let's see, when I re-clicked "livechat," it bumped me back, I think, in time. Gah, people post some really weird things. Oh, I helped you learn to love yourself!

Yeah, see, no, it's just keeps going back to Tesla's message about me needing to be better at chatting. This is what you get people! I'm not a live-streamer. I'm a sexologist who does YouTube. And I'm happy to share what I learned with you, including how I flail at some things. Kay. Think I've got a clean egg here, let's eat the egg. Okay.

[Hums] You know what I like? I like that in all those "applesauces," somebody put it's 9:52 or 58 or whatever. It's 7:52. That is very helpful.

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No, you cannot smell my pussy! I did put underwear in one of the boxes, but it's clean.

Oh! Okay, I saw a question. I think I can find it again. [Hums] I like all of you so much. So. Much. Alright. There's only 35 boxes left.

Somebody asked if I was going to give a box to some-, one person who donated $200 or topeople who together donated $200, and I think we could do something cool where I'll save some boxes for people who did this tip thing in the livechat and maybe we can take all of your names together, so anybody who participates in the tip. But then getting a hold of you is difficult.

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- hold of you is difficult. There are so many logistics to creativity! So terrible! Well, anyway, I'm going to still stick to this idea. So the packages, I'll say five of them to go to people who tip here.

[Reading]: "Is it better to place my-"
"Is the better place to buy condoms than a drugstore?"

Yeah, you can get 'em at Adam & Eve for 50% off when you use the promo code "DOE."

[Reading]: "What is my most memorable sexual encounter?"

The first one that comes to mind is that I took-, my partner had m&ms, like a jar of m&ms in their room, and I dumped them out on the bed, and then I took all of the blue ones, and I would lick them and then wipe the blue candy coating onto my partner's penis until the penis was blue. Because I'm rediculous.

The stream is about raising money for the Sexplanations Road-, mobile-, for mobile Sexplanations, we're going to go through Idaho and Utah and Nevada and California and Mexico, and I am giving out a box to each person who donates $200 on Patreon.com/sexedroadtour. These are full of my belongings that are related to sexuality and intended for good homes. Each box is unique, they're all very special, and I made them so that I would be excited if I were to open it up and receive the things that are in them.

You can find a sex therapist by going to -

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- going to aasect.org - A-A-S-E-C-T. That's where I would look. Let's see:

[Reading]: "Are you still going to get videos from Mexico while I'm there?"

Absolutely. My goal is to continue putting out one a week.

[Reading]: "Where in Nevada?"

Across it but to Mexico - oo! Pop up!

[Reading]: "Question - what happened to your 'Guku' figure you had a while ago? I really miss it. Also, do you like Dragonball Z?"

I've never seen it.

[Reading]: "My favorite character is 'Broley-"

I am not pronouncing these correctly. JMK, you sound like a very cool person, I apologize for not being as hip. [laughs] Okay.

[Reading]: "How is the stream going?"

Well, awkward, but I'm enjoying myself. I've eaten two hard-boiled eggs, a bunch of Cheez-Its, applesauce, and made a box of fun things while talking to what feels like myself for the last two hours.

[Reading]: "What happened to the Sexplanations podcast?"

It is going to relaunch tomorrow! It went on hiatus because I lost an episode, it made me really sad, but I needed like, what, four months to grieve? But now it's back.

[Reading]: "When do I think I'll reach Baja?"

In December. [sigh] This is not the end of the stream, I'd really like to get rid of all these boxes because they're in my hallway. If you would like to get a box, you can go to Sexplanations' Patreon road tour page, that is Patreon.com/sexedroadtour, there we go!

[Reading]: "Do I think I can sucessfully separate sex from love/investment?"

Absolutely. I don't think everybody can. Maybe they don't want to.

[Reading]: "I want to become a sexologist, I don't have money to get your degree."

That's okay. Volunteer. There are lots of ways to do the things. Including YouTube!

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[Reading]: "Mississippi."

Did I go to Mississippi? I don't think I went to Mississippi, but I would like to.

[Reading]: "Is your dream to live in an RV?"

No. My dream is to learn Spanish and finish this book project that I, like-, decide if I don't want to do it and be done with it, and then start a school and then die.

You bought a box, Paul, thank you!

[Reading]: "How do I get your enthusiasm?"

I don't know, hopefully fall in love with something you already care about.

[Reading]: "How do you know about the-, D-D-L-G-; c'mere, thing; D-D-D-, I don't know about the commu-, do you know about the DDLG community?"

Apparently not.

[Reading]: "Do you clean uncut penis after ejaculating? How do you clean uncut penis after ejaculating?"

There are lots of different ways, I have a video on how to clean genitals. Soap and water.

[high pitch] Oh! Okay! [Reads]: "I would love a box but don't do Patreon."

Okay! If you do a tip, I think we can figure out a way to do this. I think that your name that comes up in the livechat is probably a name that I can contact? Or I can send-, somehow I can contact you or you can contact me on Twitter and you can send a receipt for that. Oh! I know! Okay. If you don't do Patreon but you still want a box, they're not selling that quickly, I can save one for you.

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I can save one for you. You can go to sexplanations.com and you can make a donation of two-hundred dollars and forty-four cents on, so - go to sexplanations.com. I want to make sure I'm saying this right, go to sexplanations.com, there's PayPal there, there Effing Foundation if you want to send a check-, one of those ways.

Donate two-hundred dollars and forty-four cents, and the forty-four cents is so that the admin recognizes it for what it is, so that instead of it being like, "Oh, here's $200 for whatever," it'll be like, "And fourty-four cents, that is a package, this person needs a package." So if you do that, I'll send you a box. Okay? Okay.

And if all the boxes somehow miraculously disappear in the next six minutes, then I will make you a box. I'll, like, just-, I'll take the pants that I'm wearing, and I'll put 'em in a box. [laughs] I'll make you a box.

Oh, thank you! I see more donations but not comments. So, I hope you're not-, oh! There are your comment, okay.

[Reading]: "I would like to see an episode/livechat about sex and those dealing with chronic pain."

Hi, Meghan from Nashua! Yeah, I feel like those are two different things: chronic pain from sex and sex with chronic pain. I talked about it a little tiny bit in the episode where Ricky Pointer(?~1:21:45) shares what sex feels like, but I agree - that would be really helpful.

I think I'm just now learning about it myself. Being in pain all the time, and I -

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- and I don't want to speak on it yet, because I need to stay curious and learn some more.

Kay! Press-, Tesla, who's helping me! [Reading]: "Press the three dots in the top right menu, toggle timestamp to track delay."

Hi, Tony and Sarah. Oh! Ooh! I get it, I get it! [laughs] I get it, oh, friends from high school! Aw, okay.

Okay, so toggle ti-, let's do what you said - toggle timestamps, okay, you're awesome.

Tony and Sarah, "Swara." The pronunciation that you have for it is not how I remember saying your name. Okay. I miss you both, this is so exciting! I have, like, memories - like, deep memories of you two. Tony and I were in middle-school together, he used to tease me about having leg hair, [displays leg, sing-song] I have leg hair! Still, I'm so empowered, look at me. And I'm sure that Tony doesn't care now.

[Reading]: "Am I coming to Cinncinatti?(?~1:23:24)"

No, but I'll be at reserve if you want to come to my 20th-year reunion even though neither of you graduated the same year, I'm so happy that the two of you are here!

[Reading]: "Any luck with app-enabled toys?"

Do you have some? Are you creating them? You tell me. Okay, this is exciting. I'm gonna scroll down.

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Could-, if-... this is so exciting. All right, let me stay in this comment bank for a little longer. Feel free to respond to anything I said. Okay, [reading] "two-hundred dollars subbed." I wonder if that means on here. Let's look. [high pitch] Oh, yay! Only 31 packages left. Let's make another one. Can we make another one?

Need a box. (x3) [Something falls] Whoa! It's like when I spilled milk in the episode of "How to Make-," "How to Become a Sexologist," I spilled milk everywhere? Well. The person who's getting this box is going to have a slightly wet box. [laughs] Oh, gosh, thank goodness I amuse myself, because I'm really sitting in a hallway full of boxes talking to myself. [Branishes box, joyfully] It's a wet box!

Okay. So. Dry box. [sing-song] Let's fill, it, uup. First, tissue paper to make it feel special. Let's do purple and green, oh- and to answer Sarah's and Tony's question about whether or not I have any "reserve" stuff in here,-



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 - I don't think that I do. But wouldn't it be awesome if I had my kilt? Because my kilt is super-ass kinky! And really tiny, can't believe that I fit into it, I'm, like, tiny now, like how, what? Who was that person?

Look at this one, it's going to be really exciting. I was gonna hang onto this, because I don't think that I've ever used it and I was like, "Oh, I should use it and not give it away." But. I have sex in all sorts of places in very creative ways, and it won't work with the door that's in the RV. And even though I could use it in, like, an air bnb, or rent a house or something like that, I just. want. to give. stuff. away!

So. You know what this is? This. is. the. sex-swing from the episode on how to use sex-swings, and it had some dog hair on it, so I've removed it with tape. It's in awesome condition, and to my knowledge it hasn't been used. Except Hank Green swung on it a little when he came to my office to do an interview on monogamy, and I was on it twice: one to do photographs of the different sex positions so I would have them later for the actual shoot, and then the actual shoot where I felt like I wanted to vomit because... a lot of swinging and upsi-down-ing.

Okay, I'm gonna stick it in the box. [Shows box] In the box. What else should we put in here? I'm going to put in this thing. Oh, hello! Sara and Tony - this is totally from Reserve.

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I took my father's photography class, and we were supposed to make books - or something along those lines, I don't know - with pictures. Anyway, I made this book with all of the - what would you call them, "lyrics" or "words" to the song, Everybody's Free to Wear Sunscreen. And then there's terrible photographs, like, this is very dark, but still - still very cool book. Shall we read it? [high pitch] And then I'll put it in the box!

[Reads]: "Enjoy the beauty and-"
No... [Moved] Read the things.

[Reads]: "Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth, but nevermind, you will never understand the power and the beauty of your youth until they've faded. But trust me. In twenty years, you'll look back at your photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now, how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked. You are not as fat as you imagined."
That, by the way, was a picture of my mother looking at pictures of herself.

[Reads]: "Don't worry about the future or worry knowing that worry is just as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind the blindside you at 4am on some idle Tuesday. [Flips page]

Do one thing everyday that scares you.
Sing. Don't be reckless with other people's hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours. Floss. Don't waste your time on jealousy. [Flips page]

Sometimes you're ahead. Sometimes you're behind. The race is long and, in the end, totally with yourself. Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

[Shows page] And see? These are pictures from Reserve. They're terrible photographs, apparently I was not a good photography student, but! They're still Reserve things.


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They're still Reserve things. This is, like, my high school boyfriend pretending.

[Reads]: Keep your old love letters, throw away your bank statements. Stretch. Don't feel guilty if you don't know what to do with your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives. Some of the most interesting 40 year-olds still don't. Get plenty of calcium, be kind to your knees, you'll miss them when they're gone. [Flips pages]
Oh! [Shows photo] Look at these people. I went to a retirement home because I needed to take pictures for this line:

[Reads]: Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't, maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't. Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary. Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself either. Your choices are half-chance; so are everybody else's. [Flips pages]
[Shows photos] Ey, look at this cute couple. I don't think they were together, but they did the funky chicken dance for me so I could take their pictures.

[Reads]: Enjoy your body. Use it everywhere you can. Don't be afraid of it or what other people think of it - it's the greatest instrument you'll ever own. Dance - even if you have nowhere to do it but your own living room. Read the directions even if you don't follow them, do NOT read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly. [Flips pages]
I don't agree, but you do what you need to do.

[Reads]: Get to know your parents; you'll never know when they'll be gone for good. Be nice to your siblings; they are the best link to your past and the most likely to stick with you in the future. [Flips pages]
I mean, I think there is some variation to that.

[Reads]: Understand that friends come and go, but a precious few, you should hold onto. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, for the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young. [Flips page]

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[Reads (continued)]: - when you were young. [Flips pages]

I think that's changing for this generation. Oo, look at this picture. [Shows photo] So creative she is.

[Reads]: Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard. Live in northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft. Travel.

Accept certain alienable truths: prices will rise; politicians will philander; you, too will get old and when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble, and children respected their elders. Respect your elders. Don't expect anyone else to support you: maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse, but you never know when either one will run out.

[Shows photo] She did the thing with her hand. [Flips pages] Woo, this is weird!

[Reads]: Don't mess too much with your hair; by the time you're 40 you'll look 85.
[Whispers] I don't agree with that.

[Reads]: Be careful whose good advice you buy. But be patient with those who supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of wishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts, and recycling for more than it's worth. But trust me on the sunscreen.
[Shows page] And then I have hair in here! It's not real hair, it's a photograph of hair. Weird book, put it in the box. Ha-ha-ha-ha-haa!

Okay. More things. I think I'm gonna make-, well I don't know how many boxes I'm going to make over here. Vaginal Renewal! Needs to go in the box. Your Birth Control Choices, this is, like, the most comprehensive little thing, wow. Just so good. Okay, in the box. Rubber ball? In the box.

How're we doing here on comments? Beep-beep-beep.

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- Beep-beep.

[Reads chat]:"Do a cock-worship video. How do you get that book?"

You... gamble. [laughs] And try and buy one of these boxes. Let's see.

Oh! Thank you for doing a second trying (?~1:34:28), John Martin.

[Reads chat]: "Thanks for all your videos, they make my day-slash-week, even though I'm not sure what's going with this video."

[laughs] Okay, so an update for anybody who is just joining us: Hello to the 420 of you who are watching. I'm doing a livestream as this week's video because I want to keep you updated on the things that're going on, this is a list of things that we've talked about, and basically, I am-, I have packed up my house, these are all the belongings that I have related to sexuality, you can go to Patreon.com/sexedroadtour, and you can get one for $200.

You don't have to stay pledged at $200 a month, you can pledge one time and go. But you do need to pledge NOW, because I'm going to get rid of the boxes this week. And what else do I want to tell you-, the podcast will start again tomorrow, perks are going to be going out over this time, I am looking at driving Idaho, Nevada, Utah, California, moving to Mexico.

I'm gonna-, I'm working on making one of these boxes right now so that people have an idea of the contents that go into them, I've eaten eggs, and soon, you can meet my dogs! Okay, here we go.

Somebody messaged and I want to make sure - okay, I'm-

[Reads]: Humbly bow

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[Reads chat]: Humbly bow out of perspective parcels to be sent as a result of these funds, previous packages are currently presented and photos framed. I, too - like you - am running out of spaces (?~1:36:10).

Aw! [Sends kiss] Muah! You're amazing. Okay, let's see.

Okay, hi everyone! I found something else to go into the box. This one is laminated, most of them are not laminated. Wow! This is really special, actually.

Okay, so - once upon a time, I read that Kinsey, Dr. Alfred Kinsey who did a bunch of research on sexuality that really took the whole field from a smattering of research to this huge spike in the graft-, graph. And he did that after studying gall wasps - G-A-L-L - wasps for a really long time, I think his collections was 7.5 million of them, and I thought that it would be really cool if people took a one-inch by one-inch square and they drew me wasps so that I would have 7.5 million of them. And I think I even included in the video but I've done some meet-ups in Missoula where people have made them for me-, anyway, I have hundreds of them.

There is a box - in here - that has my main collection. And! It has a plastic jar of actual gall wasps - dried ones - that a student gave me as a present. But it looks like this little guy snuck out. It's laminated, it's made by someone in Grimsby, Ontario, Canada. Which is so cool! This little guy was flown to me. And it has one of the pride flags, and it's a wa-, aw!

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[Endeared voice] Look at dat little cute guy. Going in the box! Whoever gets this box, know - little precious wasp is in here. I'm gonna tuck it into the swing so that it's extra safe, and I'm gonna include this necklace, so.

Am I going to include this necklace? Ooh, gosh! This is the hard part about giving things away; is because I have to completely detatch and be like, "Nooo. Things. Leave me!"

But necklaces...

All right, I'll hold off on this one for right now, but just so you can see - Morgan Elaine, who is an artist, partcipated in the wasp thing as well, and she made me some wasp necklaces, and this is one of them. Morgan Elaine! You're fantastic, I'm not giving away your necklace just yet, I might, but m-, not yet.

Okay, we have another one of these pills-, pill containers for lube, going in the box. This, I think, is going to wait. Oo! This though. This is an expired OraQuick - oh, gosh, I wonder if I could do the speech that I used to do when I was doing these.

So, I used to test people for HIV for years, hundreds of people, and there's a whole shpeel that I gave, like, "This is an OraQuick advanced rapid HIV 1&2 antibody test, which means it's testing for the antibodies that would be fighting off HIV and not HIV itself. Which means if you've had any risk behaviors in the last three months, -

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- three months, it may not be possible for this test to find them, because it may take up to three months for antibodies to present themselves. So, in this side of the package - this side -, there is a vial of liquid that is going to activate the test, and on this side is the test itself, which looks kinda like a pregnancy test, the tip of it is kinda like a communion wafer or a flat cotton swab.

What you're gonna do is you're going to wipe it across your top gum, you're not going to smear back and forth because you don't want to disturb the sample, but just do one smooth stroke across the top, one smooth stroke across the bottom, on your gums, on your teeth, and then, we're going to put that into the vial and set the timer for 20 minutes, and then after 20 minutes, I will read it."

And then during that time, I would do, like, a risk-assessment with people, and I would talk with them about their prevention strategies and how I could even move them in the harm-reduction way from-, it would be something that was high-risk, like having unprotected anal sex as a receptive partner with somebody whose status you don't know, to having unprotected anal sex with somebody whose status you DO know! Something like that, right? Okay! Going in the box.

We just got more donations, [sing-song] so I'm gonna read thoose. [Guitar Vocalizations]

[Reads chat]: Do I like how I'm entertaining myself?
Jared! Last one -

[Reads chat]: Sorry about the technical difficulties. I have a urine fetish.

Okay, cool!

[Reads chat]: I found you recently and greatly appreciate your content, and your counseling helps me love myself.

[Throws kiss] Muah! Good! There at Humpfest, this last year's Humpfest I went to, there is a video, they did all about urine. And it's like a sing-along kinda - ah, it was so good - it was all about urine, I think it's called Trough Man. Look into it. You're well represented.

Kay, I'm gonna put some stickers.

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- Put some stickers. Stickers in the box. Do we have a sex toy in here? Yes, we do, we have the swing. We have a book, that's like a personalized-Lindsey item, we have brochures, we have a test. How about some art.

Okay, so here's the thing: [holds up card] remember when I was telling you that I spilled milk in an episode on how to be a Sexologist? Look at that, there's spilled milk. This was made by my friend, Melanie, and I've always wanted to buy her art, and I think it's beautiful, and art is very small so it could go with me, but I want it to have a home that it's going to show it off on walls, and I don't really have room in the RV to show off art on the walls. I don't know what my justification is here except that I want to treat you for taking good care of me.

I got this because-, not because of the spilled milk even though there is a correlation to that, but because I asked someone to put their semen in a jar for me, which he did do, and I used that to show my students in my Human Sexuality class what semen looks like, and then I had that jar on my desk shelf in my Clinical Sexology office for YEARS, and I showed it in an episode, an early-early episode, of some of my favorite things, and so I got this to symbolize semen coming out of the jar.

Except! So, check this out - I recently had that person over, he's a friend of mine, his name is Shawn, he is a guest on the Sexplanations podcast which will come out in the future. I had him on the show, and I had his jar of semen, and I showed it to him, which is now a magentooit-, ma-gen-ta-ish color? The semen? Because it's been in the jar for... I don't know, seven years?

It's been in the jar, it has been fine!

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For seven years! And then recently when I was packing and moving stuff, something happened. I don't know happened, it's not like the jar came undone or there was a crack or anything, but the semen got on me, and it smelled like seven-year-old body fluid.

Anyway, art. Let's put it in the box! Oh wait, nope. We already have art in the box, we have photography. This can be saved for the next one. And there's this, look at this beautiful thing [shows item]. There's that. What are the other things, this I got at a garage sale [show item], which is, I don't know, from the early 90s? 80s? It's like one of the original condom keychains?

I have this, my badge from Thinkercon, which was one of the best conferences I've ever been to. This was put on by Destin from SmarterEveryDay, and Henry Reich from MinutePhysics,  and Sabrina Cruz from NerdyAndQuirky, and Emily Graslie from Brain Scoop, and one other person who I can't remember right now... But a big group of them put on this conference, and you could choose pins to show your identities, and these are the ones I chose. [Shows lanyard with pins]

This is my most favorite, is that I'm an explorer. And then, when you went and did various projects, depending on what they were, they would give you, like, a Trivial Pursuit - I almost said Sexual Pursuit - Trivial Pursuit tile. So this is when I went and did... hm. One of these is for ballroom dancing, -

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One of them was for crafting, and I don't remember what I made, but it was a good experience. I had some conversations with ??  (?~1:46:12) scientists about sex education. I don't know, it's cool, I like it, pretty pins.

And there's this, with a tiny IUD on a keychain. And a tingler [scalp massager]. Oo, [whispers] let's put more brochures in.

[Reads chat]: Katie wants to say, "Thank you." Thank you, Katie. Oo! I'm scrolling, Nate says, "You're awesome and amazing, Dr. Doe. Thank you for your passion and sharing, wish you well and safe travels, it'd be great to buy that book, too. See you in Utah." Aw, thank you.

Oo, maybe some of you can tell me what to do about this - so, I also have hundreds of books, and there's two different types: there's books that I just have that probably aren't worth anything you could get someplace else, although they were mine and maybe that has some value to you; and then there are BOOKS that are, like, 70 years old, and I'm trying to figure out what to do with these.

One of my thoughts is that if not all of these sell, so then I-, so then more things probably won't sell, then I'll take two of the books and put them with each package. But if you have better ideas, then let me know.

Okay, here we go. Oh my gosh, it's a CD of my thesis! [Shows book] This is Monsterbating Masters coloring book, it's a book that I did successfully write, and it has all these [sing-song] pictures of another fundraiser that we did. You can get these -

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You can get these at dftba.com, but this one I'm gonna put [high pitch] in the box.

Just so you know, if you're feeling like I am not paying attention to your comments, I'm going to take some time and go back and read through them. [Sings] Meh (x5).

[Reads chat]: Lots of smiley faces. Andrew wants to say "thanks," thank you!

Okay, I think I've seen them. [Shows brochures] Alright, so we've got Correct Use of the Male Condom. These are old, 2007, HIV/AIDS, Rape, Unprotected Sex: It's Not Too Late to Prevent an Unintended Pregnancy, Gonorrhea, what else is in here that we can add. [sing-song] I think that's iit! [high pitch] Oo, boy! Let's add a condom, it's glow in the dark. In the box!

If you want to get me as a guest speaker, message me on Twitter and I'll give you more information.

Oo! This is pretty. I kind of want to just send this to somebody, but I don't know who to send it to, so, we'll just put it in the box. [Whispers] Oh so pretty. I have so much stuff.

Alright, you and you and you can go into a second box. With you. And you. Oh, I see something.

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More things. Here is a tampon that's crocheted. [Shows item, demonstrates folding] Wrappy, wrappy, wrappy, wrap, wrap, wrap, wrap. I got these on Etsy for an episode about different period products? And I was really excited because things feel like more comprehensive sex education when I show something that I've never seen before.

But then, I got it, and it came out of the package, and it smelled like smoke because the grandmother who had made it smoked when she was doing it, which is, like, fine, but if we're looking at healthy products and things I want to put in my body, probably not something that smells like cigarettes. That intensely. [Smells] It doesn't right now, so it's going to go in the box. Tampon is going in the box!

I found this [shows illustration], original Sexplanations art! Let's put that in the box. Can we do it so that it doesn't get hurt?

Is anybody bored yet? [Laughs] Am I bored yet? [Sighs] Okay. So, review: these boxes are all to raise money for the Sexplanations Road Tour, you can get one by going to Patreon.com/sexedroadtour.

[Reads chat]: And Tomar(?~1:51:31) Cook wrote, "Hello from (?~1:51:35)," hi! I just plugged you, like, 20 times for the Sexplanations podcast. "We have your Dr. Doe.net," oh, yes, I saw that today, I will DM you. Thank you for the donation.

Let's see, what was I saying? So, I'm going from Missoula-, I'm moving, I'm leaving Montana, and I'm going to -

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- Idaho and Utah and Nevada and California and Mexico, and if you are in any of those places and you would like a visit, I would love to see you. Or you can come to me because I will be coming closer to you, and we'll just meet underneath the old Georgia pine. Okay! I like you all so much.

[Reads chat]: Robert just joined for $200, "Psychiatrist from Oregon wishing you the best," aw, thank you.

Let me see how we're doing on the sale of boxes. [checks laptop] Also, if you're, like, super into it, there is a perk which I think is amazing, and again, if you don't have money to do this, please don't! This is for people who have an absurd amount of money and can help others out by donating. 

So if-, where are we-, if you want, there is a perk on the Patreon.com/Sexplanations Road Tour page that is for $400 a month, but it's "Road Head Curator." So, you basically, for every month that we are on tour, you're getting a box like this. Like, we're driving and just collecting sex things and putting them in a box and sending it to you. So cool. Also, if you donate at the level, I will send you one of these boxes. Or two. Or whatever. Okay.

[Reads chat]: "Come to California. As an emergency physician, you can tell me stories that I would not believe." I-, uh-, okay. I'm trying to move to Mexico. "What made me decide to move from Missoula?"

I have been here for 20 years, and I imagine -

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- And I imagine myself as more of a Moana-character, and so, in that, it doesn't make sense to me that I have been here for 20 years. There's more of the world to explore.

[Reads chat]: "My wife wants me to be circumcised, what should I do?" [long pause]

Okay! Sexplanations Podcast is starting up again tomorrow with an episode that I do with Brenden(?~1:54:34) - ah, I don't know how to pronounce his name - Brenden-, anyway, he produced, directed, American Circumcision, which is available to watch for free on Netflix. I guess Netflix costs money, but you can watch it that way.

And I would recommend watching that movie with your wife if she can see and hear. Watch that movie with your wife and go from there. She can email me... hoo, Jason. Okay!

[Reads chat]: Okay, let's see. It says "trying to catch up with you." "Can people have too much sex?" They might think that they are having too much sex, and in that case, yes. I've had too much sex once. For me, too much sex is when I can't walk.

Okay, let's see what else we have here. Let's put this little bag in there. This is when I did a promotion with -

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This is from when I did a promotion with Unbound. They make really clever jewelry that has, like, dual purposes? Including a necklace that you can get that has a vial for lube. It says, "'Adventure is worthwhile in itself,' Amelia Earhart." Into the box.

This, I don't think is going to fit-, [high-pitch] oo! It will fit! [Shows item, whispers] Look at this. It's a calendar of Dirty Dancing, which I'm sure is very controversial, but I appreciate it because of the education around abortion. And also, I love dancing.

This, this, this, [shows picture] I've tried to get almost every one of my partners to do this with me. One has. And then, I was like - I think this was back when I was turning 33 - I was like, "I'm gonna have a party, and I'm gonna learn how to do this, and I'm gonna dress up, and I'm gonna do this dance! All about mee!" [Laughs] Anyways. It's beautiful, it's old, it's from Goodwill. I love it though, I'm going to put it in the box.

So, it has some personal art, multiple-, like, Sexplanations art thing, THE swing, wasps, brochures, condoms, bag, tampon, stickers, let's throw this little guy in there, I know,(?~1:57:40) that one's like a good box. Yeah (x4), good box! [Eats] Celebratory Cheez-It.

Kay! There you go, box. Filled with a lot of stuff. Okay. Go in there.

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Wonder if we can put the rest of it in the box...hm. [Drinks] Almost done with the applesauce.

What do you think? Should more stuff go in this box before I close it?

[Reads chat]: You're all saying "yes," I can't remember what question I asked. "Never close the box," that's funny.

It's almost full. There's, like, an inch at the top. Look, I'll show you.

[Reads chat]: "If you should put more in, I say close the box, put the Cheez-Its in the box." [Laughs] I really want to put the Cheez-Its in the box now. Do I have a bag for the Cheez-Its?

[Exclaiming sound] Let's put this in the box. [Shows poster] Anybody remember this? Flashback! This is from a Project for Awesome, which is a fundraiser that happens on YouTube every year, and this is where I decided to paint myself and make art and sell art. And then, this is my friend-

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- And then, this is my friend holding the computer so that I can livestream it, and then somebody printed these for me because they're amazing. And now, this will go [high pitch] into the box!

Okay, somebody tell me if there's anything else you want in here, I'm going to try to put some Cheez-Its in here. If we can aquire a bag. Because I don't want to smash Cheez-Its in everybody's stuff, you know what I'm saying? I'll be right back. [Leaves frame 2:00:33; returns 2:00:57]

Oy, I'm sitting on the ground. My knees hurt. So if you want me to go to bed, have wealthy people that you know buy boxes. For you. Because you're the ones who care about the sex stuff. You should get the stuff, they should buy it.

Here we go. We got a little box [vocalizations] mee-mee-meep, little bag- [high pitch] whoa! [SFX: crackers spilling] Alright, hopefully that person who gets this box was watching this livestream, and they're not mad at me because there's some crumbs - let's do this over here. Okay, just a few Cheez-Its from the livestream. [sing-song] Who's going to be super weirded out by thiiis?

And I want to put some egg peels in there because why not. Okay, think that's good.

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I'm closing. The box. You know, too, if you don't want the box of stuff because you, like me, have too much stuff, you can sponsor somebody else to get the box. I don't think I'm using that word correctly - you can buy a box for someone else.

Maybe some of you can match up in the comments: those of you who want boxes but can't afford them can become friends with those of you who don't want boxes but can afford them. And then, you can find out ways to tell me about your new relationship, and I will make sure I take the money from one of you and I send the package to the other of you.

[sing-song] Add stickers from the rafting trip that got wet! Boo-boo-boop! [Hums descending scale] I'm so impressed, we're in hour-two here of this magic that is happening, and some of you, I think, might still be here.

Are you here from the beginning? Let me know if you're still here from the beginning or if you have joined in and just aren't aware of how boring this is yet. It's not boring, I'm having fun! [sing-song] Put the boxes on all the barcodes, doo-doo-doo. Let's put on this one, "Watch livestream for Cheez-It-, am I not -

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- Am I not even spelling Cheez-It-, "explanation-, sexplanation!" [laughs] Well, we know what would happen if Lindsey was left in a cabin by herself. [Shaking box] Ooh, yeah! That's such a good one, there are so many good ones. Let's add stickers to the ones that are right here.

If you weren't here before when I was talking about these, these are stickers that I took on a rafting trip, and they kinda got wet, so they're not, like, great for other purposes, but they are awesome for decorating boxes. Okay.

[Reads chat]: John Walker got here at the beginning, Kyr-, Jensen got here from the beginning, Amanda just joined, - oh no, your friend tore their penile frenulum? Okay (x4).

Yeah, you know what? We should just decorate some of these, too. Just not with-, only with stickers, but with stickers AND drawings, and then [high pitch] they'll be even more exciting for the people who get them.

See that none of my dogs have come to visit us yet? I mean, aside from boxes being in the way. I would've thought they oughta tried. Maybe it's because they hear me making all these weird noises and they're like, "Oh, Mom's having sex again. [grumbling noises] I can't get attention right now, she's busy."[sing-song] Putting the stickers onto the boxes-, these boxes already have stickers, but they're getting more stickers.

[Reads chat]: Aah... aaw! I'm glad it's the highlight of your week. I like you all. So. Much. Every time the S-P-D-T messages me, -

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- messages me, I just want to tell you all how much I like you. That's-, that is the cue-to-action on the telling-you-how-much-I-like-you. All right. Oo, I found another one. You need a thing. [sing-song] You need a thing. (x2)

Wonder if these stickers will stay, these stickers are vegan, by the way. A fan sent them to us, and they're biodegradable, vegan stickers. Which mean that you could coat the outdoors with them, and supposedly, it would be okay for the environment. So, there's that. I found them to be very handy.

And having something to give out to people that says, "Sexplanations" on them, and it's really fun because parents want their kids to have stickers and they're rainbow-colored, so I don't think they're like, "Ohmigosh, it's a sex sticker," so I can give them out to kids, which is really nice.

And then, maybe their parents or guardians or whatever, would look closer later, and they would see, "Oh! 'Sexplanations,' I wonder what that is?' Who's that strange person giving out rainbow stickers to my kids that say 'sex' on them?" And then they go, and they would learn, "Oh! This is an amazing resource for guardians and children!"

Oh, this is so exciting. Okay, I need to save these stickers for the next package.

If you're just joining us! We are doing a livestream as this week's Sexplanations video so that we can get rid of the boxes that are in my hallway, there's about 40-plus of them. And in order to get one of these mystery boxes full of my sexuality belongings that I am bestowing upon other people's households, you can go to Patreon.com -

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Patreon.com/sexedroadtour and pledge $200, one-time if you want, just make sure YOU cancel it, I don't cancel it, you cancel it, or you could just pledge two-hundred til the end of the time. And... [whispers] then what? 

Do that or do whatever, I've eaten the eggs, I've eaten Cheez-Its, drank my applesauce, made some boxes, podcast is starting up tomorrow, we're working on a bunch of episodes. We're still be doing episodes on a weekly basis even though I am moving away from Montana to Mexico via Idaho, Utah, Nevada, and California. I think I'm getting better at this shpeel. Let's see how we're doing here:

[Reads chat] Comments not really updating, but I'm gonna check and see how many boxes are left - oh, there. are... only 29 left! That's exciting. Let's start drawing on them.

Is this the one we just made with the candle? It is. Okay. Let's make, let's write, "[high pitch] Lindsey thinks you're awesome." And we'll draw some mountains.

I love care packages so much. When I first moved to Montana, I didn't really know how student loans worked. I would get this big check to pay for my tuition, and I used that check to send


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- send mail to all of my high-school classmates, because I missed them and that's what I did. And on them, I would draw mountains, like that: [shows] See? Mountains. Because I was in Montana, I was, like, the cool kid that got to go to Montana, what should we draw on this one?

I really want to draw sex-things, because that would make sense, but - okay! How about this? You tell me in the chat what to draw.

[Reads chat] Aw! Tony, I saw your message. [laughs] Don't you worry about my hair, I adore you, I adore you both. You know what I really like? I really like that you have been so good to my friend, Sara. And seems like you're really great together.

Okay, moving on, here we go! Does somebody want me to draw a booty? Penis? What is happening here? We could do a - what is that called? Not a linear-, continuous line drawing! And I could draw all of these things at the same time, and then maybe nobody would know what they are.

[Draws] Okay, so first, we're gonna draw a booty, then we're gonna draw a vulva with a big ol' clitoris, then we're going to draw a labia, and the vaginal opening, and the meatus, and the outer labia. Oo, anus down there, and then we'll make new boobs that are not the booty - the ones that look like booty - with areolae and nipples, and-, what else did you want me to draw-, oh, of course, a penis.

That penis does not look like a penis that I have EVER seen, except maybe on a horse. So let's try that again.

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Try that again. Come back over here. Penis, that's much more penis-like, and I made really funny balls so that nobody can really tell what it is. Hopefully, they'll think that a really small child drew this, and that is has nothing to do with sexuality. Well, maybe, hopefully. Why is that hopefully? [Shows drawing, laughs]

I love showing this, because lots of you know what my art is actually like, so. This is a fun game! I'll sign it. I'm gonna put both signatures: one is my signature, "Lindsey T. Doe," T for "takara" which means "treasure" in Japanese; and one, the sperm-, here, I'll draw it. This is my signature, I'm going to tell you all this is my signature. [shows] Look at it! It has a sperm. I'm gonna do it again. Let's highlight the sperm. With blue highlighter.

Livestreams are hard. And they're fun. We're doing hard things that involve boxes.

[Reads chat]: "Hi, Dr.Doe! I serve Americorps at D-V-S-A." I don't know what that means. "It's a crisis center. I'm a survivor, and I want to keep working to end sexual violence. What do you think we need to do to end sexual abuse?"

[Thinking noises] I sometimes like to watch old Sexplanations videos to just pump myself up and be like, "Wow! Look at-, she's smart and has her shit together!" And one of them that I watched recently was "The Signs of Sexual Abuse," and I think that in order to end it, we need to be able to identify it so that we can name it, talk about it, and bring it out into the open.


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Because - this is what I didn't get when I was growing up: when my-, so my famliy had a car stolen from us when I was, I don't know, in middle school. And then, I think they - I don't know exactly how this worked - but somehow they got the keys, and on the keys, there were sets of-, there was a key for one car and a key for the other car - there were two cars. And so, they came back the following night, and they stole the other car.

And I remember there being, like, this weird stuff of if it's their fault, and of course it's not their fault that their car got stolen! And so, we talk about robberies, and we tell people about robberies, it's really important that you tell others when things are stolen from you, because it makes them alert that there is a burglar around. Theft, a thief. So, I think the same thing needs to happen with rape. If we can openly talk about it happening, then it'll shine a light on it and get more difficult for people to rape.

Also! Huge, something that I really, really want to devote time and money to, is helping perpetrators recover. Because so often people will do things, they might not even realize that it is violent. They'll do these things, they'll come to a later or they'll keep doing them because we don't provide resources for them or education, because it's not safe for them to admit that they've done something wrong, then they just keep doing it, where they feel ashamed about it, and they keep doing it.

I don't know. Those are my off-the-cusp...

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[Frustrated vocal] This is why I write my stuff and edit it.

All right. If you put a tip on here, I'll see your thingy. [laughs] That's a very weird way to phrase it. [sighs] The SPDT messaged again, so I get to tell you how much I like all of you! Look it, I'm blushing, I've worked myself up into a frenzy. Still think I'm hot because I'm wearing snow pants and a jacket. [sighs]

[Reading chat] You did miss me eating the eggs, but you can go back. I am getting tired. I am crashing. Alright. Okay. I'm gonna do more art, I'm gonna check this thing. Can we get 20 boxes out of my house? New goal - can we get to there only being 20 boxes left. So, right now it says there's 29 boxes left. We can get tw-, [laughs] ah, I can't even math! If we can get nine boxes to go away in this next little bit, then I will go to bed. And I will leave the other 20 to just figure out their path in life.

Maybe they've already been sold through the Effing Foundation or on PayPal -

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- on Paypal or something like that. But [sing-song] I would love to get rid of 20-, er, nine more boxes! We're at 29, I want to get rid of nine more boxes. 

Feel free to buy more than one, too, because each one is unique, you'll get separate stuff: you can send one to your partner, and then your other partner, and then your other partner, you can send one to your dominatrix, you can send one to your sex-ed teacher, you can send one to your student going to school to become a sexologist, you could send one to, to - don't send one to me.

You could send one to your ex, you could send one to somebody-, it's like, a great wedding present! Because then they have all this stuff for Sexplanations, then maybe they care about Sexplanations, and then they watch Sexplanations, and then their marriage is [sing-song] amazing!

Okay, back to the things that I'm doing. We're going to do more coloring. You, little box, you look like you need some color. Please tell me in the comments what you think we should do-, oh yeah, Ebay (x4). Okay, I'll put 'em on Ebay if there's 20 left, we'll put them on Ebay.

[Reading screen] You donated, but your question didn't show. "H-dot-M-dot

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- get your box, whatever. Let's see.

[Reads screen] We're trying to get rid of them because there's 40-something of them in my hallway. And also, it helps raise money for the Sexplanations Road Tour, because we're going-, I'm moving from Missoula through Idaho, Utah, Nevada, California, to Baja. The $200 covers the price of a gas tank and shipping of these heavy boxes, and this is a gift.

So you're not really buying the box so much as you are supporting, which is why the first item on my list here [points to list behind] at the very beginning of this livestream - which happened two hours and twenty minutes ago - was to say if this is not something that you cannot afford, PLEASE do. not. buy. this. Do not pledge at the level, do not give me money, I want you to keep your finances a priority. All right.

[Reads chat]: "Here's my question: Are you certified in sex education? How do you go about that? I'm a Psych major who is interested. What schooling have you done?"

I have a ton of videos on how I became a sexologist, there's a playlist of them on the YouTube channel, Sexplanations YouTube Channel. I am certified by the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, that program no longer exists, the Headmaster passed away, and the school didn't really have a-, I don't know if they had a plan for that happening.

So! What I would recommend to you is to watch those videos! There you go, I answered your question! Okay, I'm gonna draw boobs now.

[Draws] Have I told my boob-drawing story on Sexplanations?

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[Drawing] - on Sexplanations? I don't know that I have. Well, okay.

When I was taking [skip/lag] college - which was like, year eight of studying French - I had a really hard time staying awake in school. And so, somehow, I worked out with my professor that what I would do is stand in front of the class at the dry-erase board or chalk board or whatever we had then, and I would visually communicate everything that he was saying.

So he would tell stories in French or we would talk about the literature that we were reading, and I would draw out all of the scenes. And so, one time, we were talking about, I think maybe the book, No Exit, or something along those lines, and it was talking about a French woman, and I went and I was drawing this female character, and I did these big, swoopy boobs!

And he, like, in all his, like-, he was very sweaty, fantastic professor, very passionate, he walks over hastily to the board and he goes "ttsshhh" [marking out pantomime] over the boobs, and so [muttering, turns over box, draws]. So I drew big, swoopy boobs like this [shows drawing], and then he scribbled them out [scribbles], and he goes [high-pitch vocal] bew-bew! [draws] LIke this, and goes, "French woman!" is what he says in French and how the boobs are tiny in French. Okay, so, [shows drawing] these are the boobs that I drew.

[Reads screen] Christopher! Six dollars and ninety cents, thank you!

Anyway, that's my boob-drawing story, I don't know if I ever told you that.

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[Reads screen] I missed one, where are you? "How to have sex after childhood sexual abuse?"

Stevie Boebi did a video on this, I think. Check that first.

All right. Thingy. What else should I draw on this one? What do I like drawing? [draws] I'll just draw a whole bunch of squiggles. [vocalizations] Boop! Squiggles.

[Reads chat] "Do I do online consultations?" I do not anymore, or at least not currently. "What's the best toy for beginners?" There's one that I packed in one of these boxes that I really liked. That's still like really just [high pitch] wee, little.

I think playing with toys that you already have, like, pervertables - things in your kitchen that could work as sex toys - is good. I'm writing "stay curious" on this box, which is something I've written a LOT.

[Reads chat] Oh yes, it's pubic hair and not squiggles. You are absolutely right. "I recently found out that I'm trans, and I'm celebrating." I bet "celebrating" could become a pun for something. Congratulations, Lemons. Oh yeah, sign the box. [signs, sing-song] Lindsey T. Doe, sperm signature, on the box. I'll try and sign all of these.

[Reads chat] "Used to be super closed-minded about communication, I owe a lot to you and your videos -

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"- videos since I started watching long ago. Thanks for being awesome." You're welcome, Card Shark! Thanks for donation. And for all of you who are participating in this and I'm not seeing your questions, I apologize, I'm trying.

"Do I have any videos on Peyronie's Disease?" Yes, "Curved Penises" I think is what it's called? If any of you know the answers to these questions and can write the answers to people in case I miss them, that would be great. I'm going to keep going here because I want to try to get rid of nine more of these. So I'm going to set aside the first-, I'm going to move them out of the hallway, I'm going to set-, ohmigosh, that one's big. Dat's a big box.

These need to go in boxes, too. [shows items] Put these in this room. Okay, how are we going to do this? We're gonna mo-, okay. So this one has been signed, it says "stay curious," it has boobs and pubes. This one has been signed. Whoa, it's big. Okay, this one, have you been signed? Well, kind of. We'll sign you.

[Reads chat] "How do I get over self-hatred for being a trans woman that's attracted to other women?" [high pitch] Audience? Engage! [signs box] Signed. Boom.

Look at this one over-, oh gosh, it's so big.

[Reads chat] "Dr. Doe, I just found out today that I have-"

Wait. First of all, to the person who has self-hatred: I said "audience, engage" because I really believe that there are people in our audience who have AMAZING wisdom and experiences to share with you, I'm not trying to write you off. I think one of the things that helps me when I'm trying to accept something is to go fo-, let's do the art here. [draws]

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- art here. [draws]

So this is [chuckles]. This is a negative thought, 'kay? Here's a thought bubble that's negative. Self-hatred. And society is like, [high pitch] "Have positive thoughts about yourself! Just do this thing, just do, it'll be so easy!" And instead, I think it's easier if you can go from the negative thought to the NEUTRAL thought.

Like, "This box is big, it has a sticker on it, there isn't a sticker over this bar chord, bar-" ... What's it called? Bar. Code. And then go to a positive thought. So, go from negative to neutral to positive. At least, that helps me. To acceptance. Let's sign this box, Lindsey T. Doe. Sperm. I should put a "stay curious" on it, a HUGE one. With, like, multiple sharpies of multiple colors - [gathers many pens] let's get together everybody.

Oo, there's two red, we're going to do rainbow here, so we need blue. [drops one, high pitch] Oo! And, yeah. I would like a pink in there. Okay, here we go.

[reads chat] "Dr. Doe, I just found out today that I have heterozygous x chromosome, but I-, I'm assigned male at birth. Does that mean I have paternal Klinefelter's syndrome a.k.a. I'm intersexed?" I don't know enough about that yet. I am working on an episode about all the different variations, and the way that I want to do it is to get tested myself.

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So, can I give you an answer later?

Okay, what am I doing here? "Stay curious." She's getting sleepy. "Stay." "Cur-i-ous." Well, hmm...put a heart. I don't think it worked out very well. But I did have fun doing it. You know what? Since we're doing that, let's just do another box here.

If you're just joining us and you don't know what's happening - "Ohmigosh! What is happening?? What are all these boxes??" These are all boxes that are full of my sexuality stuff that I have packed up so that I can move from Missoula, Montana in an RV, through Idaho and Utah and Nevada to California and Baja. And I have put them in these boxes to give you as a thank you. So if you donate $200 or find somebody who can donate $200 for you so that you take care of your finances, then I will send one of these to you. And there are around 20-something left, and I would like for there to only BE 20 left before I go to bed tonight.

[laughs] We're coloring. "Stay curiou-," nope. It's because the sharpies are so wide that their heads don't come together. Can't, nope. [scribbles] More pubes! Okay, I gotta put this on here. [re-caps] Okay, that goes on red. What if Sharpies. Had caps on them. That were different. Than the color -

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- Than the color that was inside of them? It's a trans metaphor, people. Okay. Also, not, because bodies don't necessarily determine how we feel about ourselves. Okay, wait, I didn't write on this one. Okay.

[reads chat] "Used to be super closed-minded about communication-," oh, we already did that one, okay. This is cool, I'm now seeing- , so-, I hope we do this again because this is really fun. I like seeing all of you. Oh! Are you teaching me Spanish or a different language? [writing] "M-A-N-A-T-," wait. "M-A-N-T-E-N-T... cur-i-o-so!" What language is this? Where are you? [softly] Oh, so. "M-A-N-T-E-N-T curioso-o."

I hope that none of you stop being my friend, because I am a weirdo. [chuckles, hums] 'Kay! I think this box is done. I have put four boxes off to the side. Oo, and this big one. [stacks]

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[stacks] This seem perious. This is a livestream box, because we made it on a livestream box, it should be a livestream box. Let's do this one, now. What would you like me to draw. [reads chat] "Big hairy balls!" I'm gonna update this road tour thing to see how much longer until I go to bed. [laughs] We sold one in that whole period of time, yay! [laughs] I really like all of you.

Oo, I will draw a kitten. [draws] Okay, first of all - cantaloupe. I think that's a cantaloupe. I'll put the little thing at the top so that you can smell it and determine whether or not it's ready, because when it smells like a cantaloupe, it's more ready. And then we will also draw a kitten, which looks more like a cat. Because let's be honest - kittens don't really hold still. And it also doesn't really look like a cat because I'm tired and I'm trying to not pick up the marker. Okay.

[reads chat] "Kitten with a bow on her ear." [draws] Boy, I hope you get this package. "The smell of sex!" The smell of sex, what does sex smell like... Now, I just use the bo-, we're just-, I'm just gonna sleep here and wait for all of you. Um, the smell of sex. [draws]

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[draws] Do some coloring. I like all of you so much.

So, do you want to hear what video you're missing? Because this badass thing - that I have worked very hard to put together - is in place of a video about Folsome Street Fair. I went to Folsome Street Fair, which is like a leather-daddy pagent, kink-celebration, rubber festival. I-, just every paraphilia you can imagine, rockin' their stuff. And I went. And I got video and I took portraits, and it's one of the most beautiful episodes I think we've made.

But I didn't post it today beause I was like, "No! I will livestream! And I will update people about my life!" Because if you're IN Idaho or Utah or anywhere in that area, I would love to see you, and I want you to know that I'm going to BE there, because wouldn't it be terrible if I was there and you didn't see me? Like, first road tour where people weren't, they weren't entirely aware? Where I was gonna be.

So. I am really grateful for all of you, and I want to meet you whenever possible, and to do that, I gotta communicate, let you know - this is how healthy relationships work

Sex has some blue smells, so we need to add some blue. I also want people to have my stuff! This is really cool sexuality stuff, stuff that I've been collecting almost -

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- been collecting almost my whole adult life. Even before I was an adult I was collecting that stuff because I was super-into sex, and my family knew it and my friends knew it, and people would just hook me up with things, so.

I am letting it go, and I don't want it to just go to anybody; I want it to go to people who appreciate sexuality and understand what it means and welcome it into their homes in loving fashions. I don't know, this almost has a little bit too much blue now. Okay. I feel like crayons are really my, my thing. But we'll d-, we'll-, this will be fine. [sing-song] Iiit'll, iit'll be f-, it's fiine. We'll just add some swoopies in there. Okay, I think this is what sex smells like to me.

[reads chat] Okay! I see some things. Okay, this person: "I'm meeting a hookup partner for the first time tomorrow, what's the fastest way to build sexual tension between new partners?"

I think it's so individualistic, but in my head, I'm thinking about the episode I did with-, on-... I did with... I don't know what their name is now, but at the time it was Connor Manning, and we talked about turn-ons, and I was thinking for myself when I had my one and only one-night-stand.

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We just had a great time, and once I determined that if I or this other person came back positive for a sexually transmitted infection, or because I play with people who could get me pregnant, if I were to become pregnant or whatever, that I could contact this person and feel accepted in my decisions about that. Let's see, what are my other conditions...

The-, like, we're clean, or we can take showers. Whatever. However you decide to [laugh] make that decision, then I would just like, "Hey! Do you have condoms or wanna go get condoms?" And not because I don't have them on me or that person, but like, talking about that and making sure that we're protected is huge. And then going shopping together, because even if you have a condom, that doesn't necessarily mean it's a good fit for the other person.

And this includes things like people who have vulvas playing with people who have vulvas, and covering toys with condoms, turning condoms into dams, building sexual tension-, oh! Something that I also really like is hanging out with the person and texting them in the down-time. Like, you might text while they're driving you someplace or you might go to the bathroom and text them what you want to do with them, but not-, you get back to the table and you don't say anything about it. I don't know. [laughs]

Just some thoughts! I've been talking to myself for almost three hours, so [laughs] I don't know! Have we built the sexual tension? Wild. Okay. [hums]

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[reading chat] "Any books for stopping sexual violence in Japan?" I don't know, but my dad is there right now doing a major pilgrimage, and so my heart is there, too. 

"Dr. D, I really have a serious question and really would love some guidance. I'm in my 40s, have been with several women, but in all cases didn't feel anything, no explosion of feeling. Is this normal?" I have no idea what normal is. 

"Could you draw a chinchilla?" Let's see what I can do. Wait, did I show you? This is my drawing of what sex smells like. [shows] I'm just going to hold it here for a moment. Did we get a signature on this box? Signature on this box! "Lindsey T. Doe."

Keep in mind, I said this hours ago, but some of these boxes are maybe going to be repackaged? Because when I went to the post office for a last-, another shipment, I was told that anything that's over two and a half pounds going east of South Dakota is much cheaper to send in a flat-rate box, so. Maybe they won't be in these boxes?

I'll try and leave them in these boxes though, because I also think it's better for the environment. I don't know about these things anymooore.

Okay, oh yes, I need to draw a fish, and I need to draw a chinchilla, and-, wait, oh, okay. Let's get organized here.

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Let's get organized here. Move down the hall because we're going to make room for my dogs. So that [sing-song] you can see my dogs before I go to bed. Well, I'll look up what a chinchilla looks like, and at the same time, we're gonna look and see if somebody bought 200 boxes. [laughs]

Okay, where are we. First, refresh, number of boxes. [vocalizes] Doo (x8). [sings monotone] Twenty-seven boxes, wanna sell seven boxes. Go to Patreon.com/sexedroadtour and get yourself a boox.

Okay, first, [types] "chin-," whoa, not on that one, "chinchilla." Aw, dats cute little guy. [draws] We're gonna have to do some marker work here, but. Because I'm writing on a textured thing here, and so I think it's hard to see. Okay, well, I'll go back through and trace everything so that you can really see it.

How's the sound quality, are you picking up this obnoxious thing? My editor was so awsome, and he came over and he let me use his compu-, this looks like a rabbit-thing, and he let me use his computer, -


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 - use his computer, because it turns out that Chromebooks don't work with livestreams. And then he plugged in this Yeti mic that we have from one of you donating it, and - I think this looks like a chinchilla. And maybe it's picking up the box's sound.

I made a chinchillaa! And I only picked up the pen. At the end. So cute. [signs] "Lindsey T. Doe." [vocalizes] Looloolooop! Okay. If people are gonna steal my identity with my signature, so be it. Shitty people in this world, time to eat a Cheez-It. Time to draw a fish!

I know what fish look like, but you know what? I wanna draw - [laughs] You know what's so cute? Is that Jessie from Animal Wonders chinchilla came up when I was searching for images of chinchilla. Is it "chinchilla?" "Chinchillas" is the plural.

[claps, hums Old MacDonald, draws]

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[draws] Okay, let's play a game! [reads chat] Yes, I'm thirsty, I should probably have some water. If you can guess what species of fish this terrible drawing is, I will give you this box! You don't even have to pay for it. [shows]

I'm eating Cheez-Its. I should probably figure out what this fish is. [searches online] I don't know what kind of fish this is-, whooa! For real, what kind of fish are you. I think it's this. How are we going to determine which of you gets it right, and who gets it first. Also, I wonder if you just Googled "fish" and it came up, and then you were like, "That's definitely what it is."

Okay. What-, that's it-, yeah, yep (x8). Okay. Also, it probably has a scientific name. [reads chat] Let's see who came up with the name for the fish.

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[sings] "When the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie, [scats the rest]." [reading chat] Okay, I don't think any of you have guessed the fish. Not a shark. [prolonged N-sound, lip pops] I'm gonna eat Cheez-Its while I watch and see if any of you guess it, because whoever guesses it is going to get this box. Then we're going to play this game some more, because I'm gonna get rid of boxes.

[hums That's Amore, reads chat] Am I really that bad of an artist?? Sheesh. Thank you for all of your positive comments! This is not a chinchilla, I like that comment. [chuckles]

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[chuckles] I drew it as a single-line drawing. One. Line! It kinda looks like the fish. Been looking at a whole bunch of pictures of it, it looks like the fish. I don't see anybody guessing. I mean, you're YouTube people right? Internet people, this is pretty easy. What you do is you type in "fish," and then you search images, cos that's probably what I did to get a picture of the fish.

And then you're like, "Oh! Yeah! It's that one!" Except I'll tell you that I didn't spell "fish" correctly because I'm delirious. Not because I can't spell, but because I can't type. [sighs] Well, now you're going so quickly that I'm having a hard time tracking, but I still haven't seen it.

If any of you have said it and I missed it, I'm sorry. Mm! "Google tailors my results." Well, apparently, Google thinks that this is my fish. I'll give you a hint: Its common name has alliteration.

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I like playing games with the internet. [hums] Do you not know what alliteration is?? Or has this not-, oh-, there it-, mm. Common name. There you go, now we've got some alliteration. But not really.

[reads chat] "If I donate coins, will you strip?" Yeah, I'm wearing a frickin coat, I'll take that off. Okay, what do we have here? Maybe this fish has other names that I don't know of and you're saying them. You're right, not everyone is born and English-speaker. Fair, fair. Alliteration is when the first syllables of the word-, or starts with the same... letter? Syllable? Sound? Something like that.

Apparently, I don't know what alliteration is either. Okay, can we be done with this game now? I'm afraid that if I stop, one of you is going to say it, and I'm not going to know how to give you this package.

There are so many boxes behind me because I am giving them away as gifts for people who donate $200 to the Sexplanations Road Tour, by going to Patreon.com/sexedroadtour.

Okay, I'm going to tell you what kind of fish this is, -

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I'm gonna tell you what kind of fish this is, and once I tell you, two things are gonna happen:

One, if somebody said it already, you're going to do screenshot-, screen-capture the, where you said it, with a time code, you can put a time code in if you go up to the three little dots at the right, I think, I don't know. Screen-capture. And send it to me. But after that, once I type it - no more. Okay? [Types] So, if you guessed it before I finish typing, you can have it.

[celebration noises] Ah ha haa! I did it! I keep the box? No idear, I don't know what to do, friends. I don't know [sing-song] how to get rid of the boxeees. I'm mean, I can just give them away. I can do that, too. Let's check on things here. [checks laptop]

I am going to give more time to this, of course. They don't have to be out of the house until Halloween because that is when I'm missing. "Missing?" Ah, that is when I'm moving. There we go. [checks laptop]

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[hums] Patreon page disappeared, [sing-song] time to turn it back on! I like you guys a lot, thanks for hanging out with me. We've raised so much money. Makes me really happy, and I just want to remind you that if you don't have the finances to do this, don't do it. There are lots of places for your money, and one of those that is most important for yourself.

Okay, we sold another one! Mm, so happy! Okay, um. [counts boxes] So 1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8. [checks other side] How many do we have: 1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9-10-11-12-13-14-15-16-17-18-19-20,(?~2:59:02) I'm kinda worried, 21-22-23-24-25-26-27-28-29-30-31-32-33 and tube, 34. Thirty-four left? Okay. Oh, thirty-five left because there's one under this thing. So, thirty-five here that haven't been moved over there, and we need to have twenty-seven here.

So let's draw on... eight more of these, right? And then, we'll leave the rest for another time. Oh, I need water. Are you my boyfriend talking? Is my boyfriend on here telling me I need water? He always tells me I need water.

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- tells me I need water. I spilled my water earlier. Okay! Have fun, talk amongst yourselves, I'm gonna go get some water. Oy. [exits offscreen 3:00:08; returns 3:00:50]

[drinks, chuckles] Okay, my dog is still close, so we're just gonna make a little bit more of a path. I want to move to Mexico because when I am not comfortable in my body, because I'm cold or when it's really grey, I'm really sad and don't feel good. My hands and my-, I ache, I'm in a lot of pain, and I don't enjoy life. So ideally, I'd be someplace like San Diego, but what's better than San Diego? Not the United States.

And I can learn Spanish, which has been one of my life goals. So, I'm gonna do that. That's, that is the self-care. I can't be there for long, so I'll come and go, and my partner doesn't particularly-

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- and my partner doesn't particularly want to be there at all, so. We'll see how it goes. And also, I would really like to start a school in Tennessee to train people.

Can you give me some suggestions about what to draw on the box, because my noggin, my noggin-, when I got water, I also got chocolate chips. Yeah. More wasps. [draws, shows] Wasp. Okay. [box falls, high pitch] Whoa! [moves offscreen 3:02:58-3:03:01] Don't worry, if you have anything fragile in your box, I tried to pad it.

[grabs box] Mm! This one, is like, so many cool things in one tiny box, you know how I know that? Because when they have three [stickers], then it's, like, the mega box. Mm-hmm. Okay, so. [reads chat] "Self-portrait." [draws, silent until 3:04:20]


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[draws, silent until 3:04:20, shows, sing-song] Self-portraait. [draws] Continuous line drawing. Signed, boom. Gotta write "stay curious." This is like, THE BOX, I'm telling you. Right now. So. Awsome. So many good things in this tiny little box. [sing-song] Put it over here. Next one. We're making. Room for the dooggy!

Okay. [reads chat, sing-song] What do you want me to draaw? [high pitch, signs] "Lindsey Doe." Wouldn't it be awsome if we had a way to, I don't know, you know, like. Let you pick your own package? Remember when I used to draw monsters? For the coloring book? [shows] I don't know what this is, look at that crazy guy.

[sing-song] 'Kay, getting so cloose. [falling-box noises offscreen] Whoa! Whoa.

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Whoa. Okay. [big exhale, laughs, reads chat] I have heard of Justin Lehmiller. How have I heard of Justin Lehmiller? That name is really familliar. If you know how I know Justin Lehmiller, tell me, please.

All right. [reads chat] "How often do I get hit on because of my job?" First, water; then, chocolate. I don't know really. I think people hit on me in the comments, but I don't really, like, it doesn't really register. When I was younger, it was moreso because Sexplanations didn't exist, and people didn't know that what I was doing was something a person could do. So, they would say stupid stuff.

I did do an episode about hitting on me, and I talked about some of those experiences. [drawing] This is gonna have a bunch of coniferous trees on it, because I like trees. Why not? Okay, what else? [reads chat]

You know, I AM thirty-seven, but I am about to be thirty-eight on November 24th. So if you want to buy yourself a birthday present, if you wanna buy, [laughs] if you wanna buy ME a birthday present for you, you can get yourself a box at Patreon.com/sexedroadtour. That's funny. [laughs]

I am not drunk! This is just who I am.

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[writes] "Love means letting others voluntarily evolve." Get it? [spells "love" in American Sign Language] "Letting Others Voluntarily Evolve." I AM a Sagittarius! And I love being a Sagittarius. [stacks box] Okay, that's definitely going to fall down, we don't want to do that.

We're getting close, we're getting close! [checks screen] All right, let's get an update here at Patreon.com/sexedroadtour [grabs box] so-, whoa this one's heavy, so that we can-, oh! Twenty-six, twenty-six. So we're going to leave 26 boxes here for people to get at another time, and the rest of them I'm going to ship out hopefully in the next couple days here, because if you have done it at Patreon.com/sexedroadtour, I have your addresses, and I can just [high pitch] woo! Send you the packages, yeah! Yeah! So exciting.

Okay, so, let's do this one. What would you like me to draw? Just a reminder to everyone, the podcast - the Sexplanations podcast - is back up tomorrow, [writing, pauses] I thought I started my name with an "S," that's a problem. Let's do that, "Lindsey."

[reads chat] "Ah, like a hobbit birthday?" What's a "hobbit birthday?" Who had a hobbit birthday? Tell me, SPDT!

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SPDT. You cool human, you. Oop, I found a-, when there are barcodes on these boxes - that I got from my local grocery store - I try to cover them up with Sexplanations stickers, which I accidentally took on a rafting trip, and they got wet. [sing-song] Ta-daa! Story time!

Let's put, let's put a vulva on here because why not. [draws] Anyway, I am just saying that-. That looks kinda like an avocado. [shows] Yep! [reads chat, mouth pops] If you want a "stay curious" shirt, you can get one at DFTBA.com.
We need to do a count [different pitches]: 1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9-10-11-12-13-14-15-16-, no, 16-17-8-,18-19-20-, ugh, the ground is wet. This will end the, the thing. Okay, so that one was 20, 21-22-23-24-25-26! We just need to move these two packages over there, and then [whispered] you can see my dooogs.

[grabs box] Okay, so this one let's write "stay curious," - I love this, I had so much fun making these boxes for all of you.

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- all of you. Like, even if you don't get these boxes, just making them and knowing that we would have this time together so I could tell you, that's like, feels so good. That's pretty awesome, I think. I don't know, I think it's cool.

[reads chat] Why is somebody saying they're all sold out? Are they all sold out? "On a hobbit birthday, the person, of whom it's their birthday, gives gifts rather than recieves." Oh! Yeah, totally "hobbit birthday!" 

Okay, so! There's this box, yeah. Every single one has unique things, and I don't know what's in any of them. Like, the map that we used for the road tour with all of our routes on it that ended up being in the video - that's in one of these boxes. Some of my clothes are in these boxes. Lots of sex toys are in these boxes.

[reads chat] "The shirts are sold out." What shirts? The red ones? The black ones? Hm, water, drink water. No more Cheez-Its, no more chocolate - water.

There is a pair of underwear in one of these boxes that is mine. It is a pair that I-, I'll draw it for you. I'm gonna draw it, I'm gonna draw it on here, and you're just gonna have to-, [uncaps pen] oo, not that marker. Where is a black one? 'Kay! So, here we go:

[draws] They're like, boyshorts-, well, that's a terrible-, but-, okay.

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[draws] Whatever these underwear are called. Okay, they're like, very boxy. And then, on the crotch, right here, I drew a vulva. And those. Are. In one of the boxes. Stay curious about that. What else is in some of these boxes?

Gosh, so much! Like all these pins that people have given me, original art, just really beautiful, cool things that I would rather you have than me, which I think says a lot. It means I really, really like you. All right.

Do you think it's possible to sell one more-... I almost said "one more dog," one more box before I show you my dogs? Because we didn't get to my goal. I mean, we did great though, and so many of you donated on the livechat to, like, just GIVE funding, so that's incredible! More than I could've evee asked, all of you are so amazing.

[whispers, shows item] This paddle. This is from Kenton at Funkit Toys. It is very rare. He made them for people at Patreon.com/sexplanations -

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Patreon.com/sexplanations who pledged at the "Let's Get Physical" level, and made an extra one for me, which is awesome, you can't get these anymore, they are so unique and precious. It's a paddle, and it also has sensation-play stuff here, and it's very light, it has a cord, it's engraved with "stay curious," do you see how beautiful that is? It's going to go into a [whispers] package. Okay?

So! If you want any of these things, we've got-, I'll te-, I'll tell you what else is left to get packed. This tube [shows] is also something, it has... something in the top that I can't remember, it has a bunch of posters, it has the snowman from the glory-hole episode and the octopus.

[shows item] There's vibrators in a lot of them. I still need to pack that one. Oo, I should've been putting these in the other ones. A whoole bunch of brand-new lubes. [shows] Lubes and lubes and lubes, these will need to be marked as "non-international," because I don't think I can send fluids internationally.

All right, let me come to you, I don't think we're going to make it to this last 25 here. So let's read your comments and then get the doggies. So we can all go to bed, because I bet some of you are even more exhausted than me, because you're on different time zones.

[reads chat] "Is every box worth two-hundred?" The boxes are not based on their monetary value, the two-hundred is for a tangk of -

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-for a tangk of-,  tank. of. gas. and. shipping, and the box is just a gift. Some of the contents are worth more than $200, some of them aren't, they're mostly sentimental value, like one-of-a-kind, you can't get this anywhere because I made it or someone else made it or it doesn't exist anymore.

[reads chat] I am tired. "Giving away personal things is a warning sign of suicidal thoughts." [soft chuckle] I am okay. I plan to live longer. I want to start a school and run that school for a while. And write a book. And live in Mexico. So, I'm getting rid of things because I want you to have them. They are not serving the world properly if they're just in boxes as I move around the world. They're serving the world better if you can enjoy them! But I really like that you asked and you thought to do that.

[reads chat] I do dream about sex a lot. [vocalizing] Na (x5). "The "stay curious" shirts are sold out in extra-large," okay, I'll see what I can do. Don't worry about the box on the bed. Part of me is also staying awake because I'm having a really good time with you all.

Okay. If you can't afford the box, don't worry. Either get someone else to buy it for you or. Yeah. On here, too, you might be able to find a buddy who's like, "I don't want one, you can have it."

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Okay, well, let me check this, this is the last time I'm checking it! [checks laptop] That is a promise to myself, a boundary on my self-care. [percussive vocalization] Tu (x5). [calling] Doggies! [soft whistle] Lina! [offscreen dog-nail taps] Ah! Donna heard me. [Donna enters onscreen] Okay, here are my dogs:

They're both coming, they're both being so patient! Okay, first dog first. This-, okay-, [Lina enters onscreen, tail-wag thumps]. Aww, babygirl, did you hurt your eye? Oh, did it yourself, huh? [wiping Lina's eye] She has-, gross, this is-, okay, whatever! I'm a dog-mom, you're gonna watch this.

So this is my old dog, she is probably fourteen, and she has a stye in her eye which is getting removed on the 30th, but it looks like she wanted to rip it off herself. So, she's bleeding a little. C'mere. I know, okay, I don't want to touch it, but-. She is a brindle pit-cross. Old puppy. Yeah, that's a good girl.

She's a rescue, I got her was she was still a puppy, and she used to go to work with me and ride on the-, like, if you're on a sedan and there's the backseats - that spot above the backseats - she would ninja-jump, like, run and h-, horizontally jump into them? And she would hang out up there.

She is definitely an athlete, or was in her younger years, and has a lot of separation anxiety, so when I leave the house, she either digs holes into the wall -

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- wall, that are the size of this box arrangement? Or now, in this house, she has taken, um, up-, in-, what are the, words these days? She has started to just pull the window out of its frame and jump over it.

[high pitch] So! High-maintenance dog. I was really lucky to have a dog-sitter in the first round of the tour, but now that my dogs are going to go with me, including this new one that I got, so. I started fostering dogs because I knew that I wasn't going to be here very long, but I wanted in my last months in Montana to really BE in Montana and not be flying everywhere, or traveling, and be just like, be home, get the projects done, love on this place one last time.

And so, one of the ways that I committed to that was to become a foster parent for dogs, and I just applied and they placed three puppies-, er s-, no. They placed, like, some littler of puppies with me, but when they got to the Humane Society from where they were being delivered, they were already aged out, so they cancelled that, and ins-, and then they were like, "But in a few days we'll have this dog and her litter that's, oh, are a week old, and you can take them."

And so this dog [shows], this is Donna. And she had three puppies:  they were the size of potatoes, and one of them was brown, and two of them were black, and they look nothing like her - they all went to good homes, I hope - I don't know where they went, they all go back to the Humane Society at-, they went at, like, nine weeks, because they weren't big enough to get neutered at eight weeks, but.

They went to the Humane Society and she did as well, and it was a really hard thing. I decided after -

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- after a very painful week that even though I thought I was gonna get out of the dog-parenting situation as my dog gets old and passes away, I had fallen in love with this little dog. And so this little dog gets along really well with my dog, they keep each other energized, they both get me up in the morning. I go on walks with them, I feel really happy when I'm around them. And. Yeah, this is Donna. So you met my dogs, Lina and Donna.

Lina is named after a river that goes through the mountains in China because I was dating a hydrologist at the time, and Donna got her name from the Humane Society, I suspect it's because she was the fouth dog to come into the shelter and they gave her a D-name. But I like it because she's a mom, and so I call her Ma-Donna. Anyway. It suits her.

[little voice, to Donna] Yeah? What do you think? What do you think? Are you cute? Do you want to go on tour with me? Do you want to live in the RV and then run around on the beach?

They're very, very deeply loved dogs. Yes. We go on walks three times a day and they eat really good food, and they get chicken and bones and. One of the fans actually sends, like, really cool dog things to take care of them, they have pretty leashes that are gender-neutral. [laughs] I don't know, I really like them.

Anyway. Thank you for spending all this time with me. I don't know, um, yeah. If, if it was helpful or not, I think it was, we got rid of a ton of boxes, which I really appreciate, -

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- really appreciate. And I got to spend time with you. So that's great.

[to Donna] Look at you, you look kinda like a greyhound. But you're not. You're like a chihuahua-terrier cross. 

[heavy exhale] Aah! Okay. I'm gonna go soon. Just reading last-minute comments here, hoping that I can access these comments later. Because I do want to see what all of you have to say. I appreciate you. Sexplanations is not ending. It's going on until... I'm forty, at least. And so, we got two more years.

I am just moving to another place in the world, and... trying to pass on my life-presents and gifts to you because I really appreciate all that you do, and I want to show my gratitude for you. Thanks for sticking around so late into the evening and to my delirium, I appreciate you. Stay curious!