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In this video essay, Chelsea dives into the realities of marriage for women, statistically speaking: how we’re sold an idea of an egalitarian partnership, and how that ultimately does not play out for many women — financially, or emotionally. Marrying the right partner can add so much to your life, but the wrong one can do exactly the opposite.
Special thanks to:
-Our guest Robyn
-Mel Hamlett: https://www.tiktok.com/@melhamlett?lang=en & https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRW66WXeQGNdV1NtyAIv0Cg
SOURCE LINKS:
https://www.britannica.com/topic/dowry
https://www.britannica.com/topic/coverture
https://www.fdic.gov/resources/supervision-and-examinations/consumer-compliance-examination-manual/documents/5/v-7-1.pdf
https://theweek.com/culture-life/men-women-housework-unequal
https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2024/11/why-women-cant-put-down-the-vacuum/680714/
https://onlinepublichealth.gwu.edu/resources/equity-vs-equality/
https://donnafreedman.com/financial-planning-many-women-dont-care/#google_vignette
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2025-04-18/why-don-t-more-fathers-take-paternity-leave
https://qz.com/401236/even-couples-who-split-the-housework-end-up-unequal-once-a-baby-is-born
https://www.scarymommy.com/parenting/schools-call-mom-dad-research-study-emily-oster
https://iwpr.org/motherhood-is-hard-pay-penalties-make-it-harder/
https://www.northerntrust.com/united-states/institute/articles/financial-mistakes-women-make-during-the-divorce-process
CHAPTERS:
00:00:00 Intro
00:02:41 Ad Break
00:04:51 Intro
00:11:45 Chapter 1: A history of marriage as economic proposition
00:15:48 Chapter 2: When he's not willing to meet you halfway
00:24:20 Chapter 3: The tyranny of the 50/50 warriors
00:34:01 Chapter 4: The "wife allowance" dynamic coming back into vogue
00:41:00 Chapter 5: Having kids (when things go from bad to worse)
00:50:59 Chapter 6: When you inevitably want a divorce from him
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In this video essay, Chelsea dives into the realities of marriage for women, statistically speaking: how we’re sold an idea of an egalitarian partnership, and how that ultimately does not play out for many women — financially, or emotionally. Marrying the right partner can add so much to your life, but the wrong one can do exactly the opposite.
Special thanks to:
-Our guest Robyn
-Mel Hamlett: https://www.tiktok.com/@melhamlett?lang=en & https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRW66WXeQGNdV1NtyAIv0Cg
SOURCE LINKS:
https://www.britannica.com/topic/dowry
https://www.britannica.com/topic/coverture
https://www.fdic.gov/resources/supervision-and-examinations/consumer-compliance-examination-manual/documents/5/v-7-1.pdf
https://theweek.com/culture-life/men-women-housework-unequal
https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2024/11/why-women-cant-put-down-the-vacuum/680714/
https://onlinepublichealth.gwu.edu/resources/equity-vs-equality/
https://donnafreedman.com/financial-planning-many-women-dont-care/#google_vignette
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2025-04-18/why-don-t-more-fathers-take-paternity-leave
https://qz.com/401236/even-couples-who-split-the-housework-end-up-unequal-once-a-baby-is-born
https://www.scarymommy.com/parenting/schools-call-mom-dad-research-study-emily-oster
https://iwpr.org/motherhood-is-hard-pay-penalties-make-it-harder/
https://www.northerntrust.com/united-states/institute/articles/financial-mistakes-women-make-during-the-divorce-process
CHAPTERS:
00:00:00 Intro
00:02:41 Ad Break
00:04:51 Intro
00:11:45 Chapter 1: A history of marriage as economic proposition
00:15:48 Chapter 2: When he's not willing to meet you halfway
00:24:20 Chapter 3: The tyranny of the 50/50 warriors
00:34:01 Chapter 4: The "wife allowance" dynamic coming back into vogue
00:41:00 Chapter 5: Having kids (when things go from bad to worse)
00:50:59 Chapter 6: When you inevitably want a divorce from him
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