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In this 3-part series, our good friend Stefanie O'Connell breaks down some of the biggest traps women fall into, starting with the cost of betting on potential: when "I can fix him" turns into a huge financial mistake, or worse. Stefanie is an award-winning writer covering ambition, money and power, and her book THE AMBITION PENALTY is in stores now!
Follow Stefanie here: https://www.instagram.com/stefanieoconnell/?hl=en
Buy her book: https://bookshop.org/a/82703/9781541705210
THANKS TO OUR FEATURED GUESTS:
Kiki Bryant:
IG: https://www.instagram.com/uppity_negress_
Substack: https://uppitynegress.substack.com
Website: https://uppitynegress.com
Nicole Huffman
IG: https://www.instagram.com/nikkiatxattorney/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nikkiatxattorney
Allison Tait:
Substack https://allisontait.substack.com
Book: https://bookshop.org/a/82703/9780520425255
Celeste Davis:
Substack: https://substack.com/@celestemdavis
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/celestemdavis/
SOURCE LINKS:
https://people.com/rachel-lindsay-breaks-silence-on-bryan-abasolo-divorce-denies-choosing-career-over-children-8772541
https://people.com/rachel-lindsay-slams-ex-bryan-abasolo-claim-he-earns-16k-annually-8671265
https://people.com/rachel-lindsay-says-she-shouldnt-be-punished-for-being-successful-during-marriage-to-bryan-abasolo-11709217
https://people.com/rachel-lindsay-breaks-silence-on-bryan-abasolo-divorce-denies-choosing-career-over-children-8772541
https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/#the-earnings-landscape-of-marriages-today
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0950017020937936
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s13524-018-0647-x
https://thegepi.org/reports/GEPI-Free-Time-Gender-Gap-Report.pdf
https://www.nber.org/papers/w33393
https://www.economist.com/finance-and-economics/2026/07/13/the-stubborn-scarcity-of-female-breadwinners
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/336873849_Spousal_Relative_Income_and_Male_Psychological_Distress
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6663107/#
https://www.economist.com/finance-and-economics/2026/07/13/the-stubborn-scarcity-of-female-breadwinners
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/jomf.70081
https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/politics-news/poll-gen-zs-gender-divide-reaches-politics-views-marriage-children-suc-rcna229255
https://www.kcl.ac.uk/assets/news/iwd-2026-global-charts-final.pdf
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/03616843261433199
In this 3-part series, our good friend Stefanie O'Connell breaks down some of the biggest traps women fall into, starting with the cost of betting on potential: when "I can fix him" turns into a huge financial mistake, or worse. Stefanie is an award-winning writer covering ambition, money and power, and her book THE AMBITION PENALTY is in stores now!
Follow Stefanie here: https://www.instagram.com/stefanieoconnell/?hl=en
Buy her book: https://bookshop.org/a/82703/9781541705210
THANKS TO OUR FEATURED GUESTS:
Kiki Bryant:
IG: https://www.instagram.com/uppity_negress_
Substack: https://uppitynegress.substack.com
Website: https://uppitynegress.com
Nicole Huffman
IG: https://www.instagram.com/nikkiatxattorney/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nikkiatxattorney
Allison Tait:
Substack https://allisontait.substack.com
Book: https://bookshop.org/a/82703/9780520425255
Celeste Davis:
Substack: https://substack.com/@celestemdavis
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/celestemdavis/
SOURCE LINKS:
https://people.com/rachel-lindsay-breaks-silence-on-bryan-abasolo-divorce-denies-choosing-career-over-children-8772541
https://people.com/rachel-lindsay-slams-ex-bryan-abasolo-claim-he-earns-16k-annually-8671265
https://people.com/rachel-lindsay-says-she-shouldnt-be-punished-for-being-successful-during-marriage-to-bryan-abasolo-11709217
https://people.com/rachel-lindsay-breaks-silence-on-bryan-abasolo-divorce-denies-choosing-career-over-children-8772541
https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/#the-earnings-landscape-of-marriages-today
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0950017020937936
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s13524-018-0647-x
https://thegepi.org/reports/GEPI-Free-Time-Gender-Gap-Report.pdf
https://www.nber.org/papers/w33393
https://www.economist.com/finance-and-economics/2026/07/13/the-stubborn-scarcity-of-female-breadwinners
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/336873849_Spousal_Relative_Income_and_Male_Psychological_Distress
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6663107/#
https://www.economist.com/finance-and-economics/2026/07/13/the-stubborn-scarcity-of-female-breadwinners
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/jomf.70081
https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/politics-news/poll-gen-zs-gender-divide-reaches-politics-views-marriage-children-suc-rcna229255
https://www.kcl.ac.uk/assets/news/iwd-2026-global-charts-final.pdf
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/03616843261433199
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